What is acceptable in the workplace?

[desiderata]

I have had a run of poor luck in a stretch of recent workplaces. I'm not looking for perfection, however, after accepting a few different offers I have not been able to adapt to the certain cultures I've been exposed to. Everything from being called out and berated in front of a group of peers when a one-on-one would have had a much better effect on me. Also, having to deal with political philosophies which dictate how the business is run. I keep to myself mostly but when something is pushed and shoved towards me without even expressing my true thoughts and opinions are a bit much.
I have gone into interviews trying to analyze what is required of me, the culture of the workplace, and the type of people I will be working with. This analysis is hard to nail down in a short period of time and is somewhat of a crapshoot. I have always thought we become a product of our environment and cannot continue to work for a company and its people if there isn't similar values match. Maybe I've become too sensitive. Just looking for more of a good fit.

 

[Daniel E.]

I like the idea of bring your own culture. Like the emerging trend of pets as co-workers, either from working at home or working for a pet-friendly employer.

 

[Daniel E.]

Dilbert therapy:

Of course, some companies/bosses/co-workers have to be better than others -- or have more engaging clients/customers.

 

[Daniel E.]

Why 'stay interviews' could be the answer to the Great Resignation

Forget the exit interview – why it's time to focus on your existing talent

www.hcamag.com

"What do you look forward to when you come to work each day?"

 

[Daniel E.]

Regarding diversity (and lack of acceptance of it) at work:

What Allows Creatives to Uniquely Solve Workplace Problems

Creatives are shapeshifters who challenge the status quo.

www.psychologytoday.com

"Creatives jostle the status quo, often making them targets for workplace bullying."

"Creatives must transcend the world of dualities and float amongst diverse ways of being, sometimes all within a single day."

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Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You



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