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    10 Ways to Build Resilience

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    10 Ways to Build Resilience


    Make connections.
    Good relationships with close family members, friends, or others are important. Accepting help and support from those who care about you and will listen to you strengthens resilience. Some people find that being active in civic groups, faith-based organizations, or other local groups provides social support and can help with reclaiming hope. Assisting others in their time of need also can benefit the helper.

    Avoid seeing crises as insurmountable problems.
    You can't change the fact that highly stressful events happen, but you can change how you interpret and respond to these events. Try looking beyond the present to how future circumstances may be a little better. Note any subtle ways in which you might already feel somewhat better as you deal with difficult situations.

    Accept that change is a part of living.
    Certain goals may no longer be attainable as a result of adverse situations. Accepting circumstances that cannot be changed can help you focus on circumstances that you can alter.

    Move toward your goals.
    Develop some realistic goals. Do something regularly -- even if it seems like a small accomplishment -- that enables you to move toward your goals. Instead of focusing on tasks that seem unachievable, ask yourself, "What's one thing I know I can accomplish today that helps me move in the direction I want to go?"

    Take decisive actions.
    Act on adverse situations as much as you can. Take decisive actions, rather than detaching completely from problems and stresses and wishing they would just go away.

    Look for opportunities for self-discovery.
    People often learn something about themselves and may find that they have grown in some respect as a result of their struggle with loss. Many people who have experienced tragedies and hardship have reported better relationships, greater sense of strength even while feeling vulnerable, increased sense of self-worth, a more developed spirituality, and heightened appreciation for life.

    Nurture a positive view of yourself.
    Developing confidence in your ability to solve problems and trusting your instincts helps build resilience.

    Keep things in perspective.
    Even when facing very painful events, try to consider the stressful situation in a broader context and keep a long-term perspective. Avoid blowing the event out of proportion.

    Maintain a hopeful outlook.
    An optimistic outlook enables you to expect that good things will happen in your life. Try visualizing what you want, rather than worrying about what you fear.

    Take care of yourself.
    Pay attention to your own needs and feelings. Engage in activities that you enjoy and find relaxing. Exercise regularly. Taking care of yourself helps to keep your mind and body primed to deal with situations that require resilience.

    Additional ways of strengthening resilience may be helpful. For example, some people write about their deepest thoughts and feelings related to trauma or other stressful events in their life. Meditation and spiritual practices help some people build connections and restore hope.

    The key is to identify ways that are likely to work well for you as part of your own personal strategy for fostering resilience.

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    10 Ways to Build Resilience

    Janet,

    Thanks for posting this wonderful information. I am putting it on my fridge where it will be visible to me always.

    Cheers
    HeartArt

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    Re: 10 Ways to Build Resilience

    Just found this.. while looking for something else...

    thanks janet..

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    Lightbulb Re: 10 Ways to Build Resilience

    What a great guide for happy living, Janet.

    Accept that change is a part of living
    I learned this lesson from my late mother who was able to adapt throughout her life despite frequent, seemingly insurmountable adversity.

    She lived her life to the fullest up to the end, and I attribute her success to this principle.

    The list is a keeper.
    Steve

    Dum spiro spero....While I breathe, I hope

    Tourette Canada Forum

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    Re: 10 Ways to Build Resilience

    Maintain a hopeful outlook.
    An optimistic outlook enables you to expect that good things will happen in your life. Try visualizing what you want, rather than worrying about what you fear.

    Take care of yourself.
    Pay attention to your own needs and feelings. Engage in activities that you enjoy and find relaxing. Exercise regularly. Taking care of yourself helps to keep your mind and body primed to deal with situations that require resilience.
    These are two that I have to keep reminding myself of.

    Thanks Janet for the post and Fog for resurrecting it.

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    Re: 10 Ways to Build Resilience

    Thanks Janet

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    Re: 10 Ways to Build Resilience

    I needed to read this again too.

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    Re: 10 Ways to Build Resilience

    I think reading this list again did us all some good, Janet.

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