Thanks Thanks:  4
Likes Likes:  5
Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    Join Date
    Mar 2004
    Location
    Ottawa, Canada
    Posts
    36,913
    Mentioned
    25 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Compulsive Buying - When Pleasure Turns to Pain

    Compulsive Buying - When Pleasure Turns to Pain
    By Michael Craig Miller, M.D., Harvard Medical School
    October 25, 2006; May 26, 2009

    It had become a tradition in my family. After we dropped our kids at camp near Augusta, Maine, we stopped in Freeport on our drive back to Boston.

    Freeport is the home of clothing retailer L.L. Bean, which is open 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. It was a magnet for 'round the clock shoppers decades before the Internet. Freeport is now thick with outlet stores ? a perfect place to do "retail therapy" in the hours after you leave your beloved children.

    There's no denying the pleasure in purchasing. And advertisers only get more skilled at parting us from our cash. But for some ? maybe as many as 1 in 20 according to a new study ? shopping is a compulsion or an addiction. Compulsive shoppers may get some pleasure, but they are also trapped in a terrible cycle. As shopping becomes an irresistible and sometimes senseless impulse, they buy things they don't need and can't afford. And the shopping leads to guilt, conflict in key relationships, trouble at work, and financial difficulty, if not ruin. In some cases, the compulsion leads to criminal activity.

    At worst, an individual may commit suicide in response to feeling depressed or humiliated. That is an extreme and rare outcome. But experts have learned that compulsive buying can cause as much distress as very common mental disorders such as depression and anxiety.

    Is Compulsive Buying an Illness?
    Compulsive buying is not currently listed in the manual used in American psychiatry to diagnose mental health disorders. But it may appear in the next edition. For now, it's considered a problem of impulse control ? the inability to resist an impulse or temptation. There's an increasing sense of arousal or tension before acting and a sense of relief afterwards.

    But there are experts who disagree. Some see compulsive buying as a variation of obsessive-compulsive disorders. Others see it as an addiction. It's possible that it's not a compulsion or an addiction at all, but a way to soothe painful feelings of depression or loneliness. It may also be part of the intense high or euphoria of mania.

    Some experts even criticize the idea that we should call compulsive buying a medical or mental disorder. They suggest that the problem is primarily a social one. Advertisers are too clever at selling us things. And modern shopping opportunities are always available.

    The social influence is great, no doubt. But there is evidence of a biological component, too: Compulsive buyers are more likely than average to have a mood disorder or some other psychiatric disorder. And their close relatives are more likely than average to have psychiatric disorders like depression, alcoholism, or drug abuse. This suggests a genetic, and therefore a biological link.

    How Common Is It?
    In a study published in the American Journal of Psychiatry this month, researchers interviewed about 2,500 adults selected at random across the United States. They were asked questions from a standardized "compulsive buying scale." Subjects were asked to describe their spending habits and say whether they thought their spending was unusual, if they were spending to improve their mood, if they felt they were losing control and if they had developed money troubles.

    The authors found that almost 6% of the people who responded had significant problems with compulsive buying. This is two to four times higher than rates for anxiety and depression. When they used the strictest definition of compulsive buying, the rate dropped to between 1% and 2% ? similar to rates of major depression. Either way, it adds up to too many people spending too much money, getting too little pleasure and feeling too much pain.

    Women and men are equally affected by this problem. So society's bias that women are more likely to be shopaholics, is wrong. Women are, however, more likely to seek treatment.

    Figuring Out the Cause
    There are probably multiple causes of compulsive buying just as there are numerous causes of depression and anxiety. Getting the right treatment depends on the answers to these questions:

    • Is the person depressed? Does he or she have mood swings that alternate between manic and depressed periods, suggesting bipolar disorder?
    • Does the person have other problems with impulse control?
    • Does the person's buying habits fall into an "addictive" pattern? Does he or she feel guilty or remorseful after shopping? Are there other addictions, such as alcohol, drugs or gambling?
    • Are there other obsessions and compulsions the person has such as a tendency to collect things obsessively, or to hoard?
    • Is shopping a way to combat loneliness or to deal with feelings of emptiness or aimlessness in life?
    • Will overspending make the person vulnerable to financial hardships?
    • Does the excess spending create conflict at home?
    • Has the person's work or career suffered?
    • Does the person shop in a mall or online?
    • Does the person recognize the problem?

    Getting the Right Treatment
    Compulsive buying is almost certainly not one illness with one best treatment. Here's what research has shown about possible treatment options:

    • In one small study, cognitive behavior therapy was effective at reducing compulsive shopping.
    • Antidepressants, which are often used to treat obsessive-compulsive symptoms, have not been proven specifically successful for compulsive buying. But they can help if the person also is depressed.
    • If a person has another addiction, it should be treated because other addictions can make matters worse.
    • As with most psychiatric disorders, education and family support are key elements of treatment, especially as the problem becomes more severe.

    If life is unraveling ? the money is gone, relationships have been destroyed, work life is damaged, and there are high levels of distress ? it may be necessary to try all of these approaches at once. And someone else may have to intervene, for example, by taking away the credit card or shutting off Internet access.

    Pleasure Without the Guilt
    Social scientists are probably right that compulsive buying is fostered by an economy that benefits some people when others over-spend. Compulsive shoppers are not buyers who can beware. They need tools to combat the relentless temptation of advertisements and packaging. Part of the treatment process may include buying a sensible book on managing finances (and not one that promises a get-rich quick scheme). Read it! Find a financial advisor you can trust, or someone to hold your paycheck. It's tough to give up control to others, but it's probably a good idea if you've lost control yourself. It is best if that person does not shame you for having the problem.

    The aim is not to stop spending completely, but to turn what has become a compulsive and joyless activity into one that reliably brings pleasure without guilt. When that goal is reached, we'll meet at the outlet store.

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Arizona
    Posts
    16,666
    Mentioned
    82 Post(s)
    Tagged
    1 Thread(s)

    Re: Compulsive Buying - When Pleasure Turns to Pain

    When that goal is reached, we'll meet at the outlet store.
    I know I've changed. Sometimes even at the dollar store some things seem too expensive since I don't need them anyway

    Another good article that Dr. Baxter posted:

    Inside the Mind of the Compulsive Shopper

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    South Africa
    Posts
    474
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Re: Compulsive Buying - When Pleasure Turns to Pain

    Same here Daniel I would buy a bottle of water just to buy something at one stage. It is much better now but this types of read makes it real that such a problem exists. Thank you for the Article Dr. Baxter.

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Arizona
    Posts
    16,666
    Mentioned
    82 Post(s)
    Tagged
    1 Thread(s)

    Re: Compulsive Buying - When Pleasure Turns to Pain

    "Even in a well paid job, we're all far closer to a shelter than a mansion."

    ~ Jack Smith (comment to New York Times article Out of Work in America)

Bookmarks

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

Disclaimer: PsychLinks is not responsible for the content of posts or comments by forum members.

Additional Forum Web Design by PsychLinks
© All rights reserved.