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    Re: Can you ever get better?

    Thanks for the link got it now. I will have a read. Does anyone else here have AvPD because it would be good to relate. I dont want to sign up on other forums, i really like this place and everyone here is really nice. You know i just dont know what to do anymore
    I wish i was normal, if i had one wish in the world.. to be millionaire or anything... id just pick to be cured!
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    Re: Can you ever get better?

    www.psychforums.com/avoidant-personality/topic91409.html

    I've disabled an option that might be messing up the link. But now even when I paste the above into the address bar, somehow a space is getting in. Might be an issue with my browser.

    If you paste the above address and then double check that there are no spaces, you should get there.

    Argh, it's annoying, since that thread seems to be giving a lot of hope to a lot of people who seem very low on hope!! So I hope you can get the link to work somehow... how ironic, argh.

    ---------- Post Merged at 04:10 AM ---------- Previous Post was at 03:50 AM ----------

    Yeah, its scary trying to find somewhere on the internet where you'll feel comfortable to post, isn't it...where you feel confident that people will be reasonably nice.

    At that other place you will find a much bigger bulk of peoples experiences with personality disorders, so I guess you could always get insight and experiences from those; but when you want to post and talk yourself, its good that you feel comfy enough to do that here.

    If you do a search here you will find people with the same diagnosis, and threads they have posted.

    Also, you can do a very handy site-specific Google search, by typing "sitesychlinks.ca" into your google search, plus whatever words you want to look for. I find that very handy for searching within a website sometimes.

    Wishing you all the best SilentNinja...

    And don't forget that one of the greatest resources can be your therapist and doctors, once you are able to take little steps of trusting them and opening up...

    ...So hard to do but so worth it, when you eventually are able to.

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    Re: Can you ever get better?

    Link fixed now.

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    Re: Can you ever get better?

    Thanks Dr. B

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    Re: Can you ever get better?

    thanks, i got the link the first time round

    the other place looks very busy and scary i dont wanna post there, i really feel at home here because ive been a member for a long time.
    Good to read the posts though! thank you for finding it for me!

    I have just now deleted my facebook acccount.. the only place i had left to talk to people, I couldnt think of what to say to those people about meeting them, plus, i was making a fool of myself on there.
    Now i feel extremly lonely and cant stop crying. Its just a circle i go round... never ever ending.
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    Re: Can you ever get better?

    Thinking of you...

    Maybe you are getting closer and closer to truly "wanting to get off" that merry go round?? Even though it is so scary and you can still feel that opposite drive, maybe you are getting closer to that moment of thinking, "I've really had enough. I do want something different and Im going to find out how others have gotten there, whatever it takes." Because you are looking around for info about it so that is really positive!

    So keep going... keep reading about other peoples stories... anything that might nudge you closer and closer to the edge of the merry go round... and help you see the way past the difficult roadblocks to progress which seem to come with AvPD.

    Wishing you the best SilentNinja, and remember you are never truly alone, with people thinking of you and with the stories and experiences out there which can help you find a way forward. You seem hungry for it and I believe in time you will find it!

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    Re: Can you ever get better?

    Thnk you so much, i really hope so.
    My coach just told me i cant grade in March if im not mentally ready, im not sure how to get out of this dark pit.. i need to be ready for march.
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    Re: Can you ever get better?

    oh look its me again! I'm so sorry.

    but i have decided i am not going to get involved with humans anymore, i am just going to do my own things at home, you know at work today the boss screamed in my face about something that wasn't even my fault.. and i couldn't even stick up for myself, i stood there and took it.. unable to say a word. The i got pulled up another twice for things that wasn't my fault... i thought i was going to snap.. i have SO MUCH ANGER INSIDE ME RIGHT NOW... and i cant let it out. I'm sitting here in a daze.

    Everyone is against me, or their goal.. to hurt me, fact.

    So be it no one can get me at home, I'm not getting involved with humans, they are evil creatures :'( :'( :'(

    ( no one here is evil! Plz don't take that the wrong way... i mean the people here where i live, the people i know, my friends, people at work, people at martial arts classes etc )
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    Re: Can you ever get better?

    Although I was not quite as expressive as you (I mostly just cried) I certainly felt much the same yesterday. It does not seem acceptable to me that someone should scream in your face. I am not sure what the resolution for that should be but it seems understandable to me that you would/should be upset. We humans are not all evil so hopefully you are feeling a bit better and can find some positive ways to move toward connecting with some good people.

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