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    Complex PTSD

    I have been diagnosed with complex PTSD. Iíve lived through years of emotional abuse. I still face the emotional abuse each and every day. What gets to me is, because Iíve been unable to stop the abuse myself, I canít be qualified for therapy.

    Iíve learned to become highly resilient so I havenít been stopped from at least trying to partake of life. However, I have frequent meltdowns out in public when Iím triggered, and the result is Iím very alone.

    Apparently OHIP only covers group therapy treatment programs for people with PTSD so, because Iíve learned how to become so highly resilient and I havenít resorted to using drugs or alcohol, Iíve been told I canít fit into the program.

    They said I need one-on-one therapy.

    They said, if I go into a group program when Iím so highly functional others will feel threatened by me. They will look at how well I function and then question why they canít do the same.

    I donít get it. Wouldnít it be more helpful to share coping skills and learn how to support each other?

    Does it make sense that I can be denied entry into trauma treatment programs because I havenít been able to single-handedly stop the abuse?

    Any tips on how I can fix this?

    Iím tired of alienating myself more and more because of the meltdowns.


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    Re: Complex PTSD

    Why not do one on one therapy?

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    Re: Complex PTSD

    I know it's not the same as help from an actual person/people but I found the book 'Complex PTSD' by Pete Walker really good and very helpful. Also 'The Body Keeps the Score' by Bessel van der Kolk.

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    Re: Complex PTSD

    "They said, if I go into a group program when I’m so highly functional others will feel threatened by me. They will look at how well I function and then question why they can’t do the same."

    This makes no sense at all You need support as much as they do just because you have chosen different way out to deal with your struggles does not mean you should be eliminated from therapy. If anything you would be an example to the people who have chosen a different path. You would be a positive example and i don't see how that would threaten them they would have some hope they could do the same using different coping skills. I hope you can find a group that chooses to include you and see how beneficial it would be to have you in their group.
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    Re: Complex PTSD

    Quote Originally Posted by making_art View Post
    Why not do one on one therapy?
    I canít afford it. It costs something like $40/hr. OHIP doesnít cover one on one therapy.


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    Re: Complex PTSD

    A referral from your doctor would provide a therapist through a mental health centre at no cost to you.

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    Re: Complex PTSD

    "A referral from your doctor would provide a therapist through a mental health centre at no cost to you."

    I have been through the process in Ontario and it took years for me to get a referral. There is 'no-cost' group and one-on-one assistance available but it takes a lot of persistence and a bit of luck to be accepted. Many doctors do not know what is a available. If they said you need one-on-one therapy then they should give you a referral. Ask and ask again - good luck.

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