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    Re: an ending

    Going to see my girl again today i don't care what anyone thinks or says she needs to know that she is cared for that people will not throw her away or judge her because of what is happening. Yes she makes bad choices yes but i do think there is some medical aspect to this physical aspect with her gallbladder and liver being affected and not working well. Oh well see what happens when i get there. I do hope that they can get her to her ultrasound tomorrow. i know i do know sometimes it is best to step away it is a hard call sometimes.
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    Well drove all the way there only to find out she is in lock up area now not the one in emergency but upstairs and i could not visit her as the area was unsettled

    Nurse said too much going on.
    The nurse was kind though took the things i bought my daughter food clothing etc to her it upset her that i could not go in but i talked to her on phone and calmed her down.

    I did a lot of running around re this ultrasound but it has to be done by the hospital she is at so they have to get it re-booked there.
    The thing is her original requisition is in her purse i am sure of it and it is in security lock up
    They have to think get security to bring her purse to her so she can get dam requisition ugggg not my problem now they i hope can deal with it.
    I did give the nurse my daughter new doctors name as her old doctor has retired. That upset her too but the new doctor seems kind. I hope they relay any information to the new doctor as well.

    She has also an appt with her psychiatrist i see this Thursday and i hope her act teams is aware she is in hospital and to cancel that appt.
    I dropped by her apartment to make sure everything was turned off dam dam it looked like a bomb was set off in it food everywhere on floor dirty dishes everywhere on couch floor just upset me more.

    Tried to clean up place as much as i could did her dishes that's it and got rid of all the gravol there i could find
    i am home now haven't decide if i can go tomorrow or not they say visiting hours are only after 4pm that won't happen as hsb home then.

    I will call tomorrow morning see if i can get in to see her for 20 min that is all that is allowed either tomorrow or Thursday. After seeing what i saw ya she belongs in hospital for awhile anyways.

    One day at a time right she will be ok there i am glad she is not in the part she was before and tonight anyways she is with a kind nurse.
    Again i being told to let her go let her go well that won't happen ever sorry just upsets me that people so easily can say and do that. would you walk away from someone that was suffering from cancer no she has a cancer like brain do they not see that her brain does not always work right oh well got to let it go for now hsb home soon have to get something on quickly for supper.
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    Never mind hope the weather does not get too bad as i am not allowed to see daughter till the evening they say and for only 20min at a time in the intensive psychiatric unit. Most hospitals encourage visits with family it seems not when you have mental health problems.
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    Re: an ending

    I think the isolation and time limits are partly to protect the patient from outside triggers in a controlled environment. Many patients have issues that are caused or aggravated by their immediate family and friends and isolating them from the outside world can be helpful in the long run.

    Try and keep in mind she’s there for a serious reason and needs help to learn to stop putting her life in danger.

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    20 MIN is not long enough felt like i walk in and had to walk out. i was allowed 25 min that it could not talk to her nurse as she was at supper i guess. security guard allowed me to go down and get pizza and a pop for her and he would give it to her. She did not have lunch because all they had for her was tuna sandwich and she hates fish. I did that but he was not available so another nurse said she would give it to my daughter. I just hope my duaghter was not acting out after i left she was very emotional too.

    I left so defeated i still feel so emotionally upset

    Family members should be allowed to comfort their child no matter what time of day no matter how long it takes.
    But rules are rules i told her i begged her to stay well. i have booked another 20 min visit for tomorrow she did say that she is getting her ultrasound done tomorrow so that is good. I could not even speak afterwards the words would not come out you know i fell apart anyways hopefully soon she will get out of lock up and to big ward where she can walk more. tired now need to rest i guess sorry for rambling.
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    Re: an ending

    Ramble all you want! Hopefully this will all turn out to be helpful for your daughter.

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    Re: an ending

    Ultrasound still not done yet going again to see her 430 pm could not book 4 oclock one be dark when i have to drive home. ugg

    Hoping she gets stable enough to transfer to the other side more room to move hoping ultrasound gets done today.

    So tired may have to take a couple of days off from going to see her it really does drain me i am drained today no energy but i will try my best to not let her seee that.
    Bought her stuff to color to keep her mind occupied when there.

    Taking one day at a time as i am sure she is too. T,alked with my therapist yesterday on phone for few minutes so triggering going there being locked in hearing her words child like , oh breathing have to learn to just breath before i go and afterwards.

    I just want her well strong again. another nurse there her son is doing well he is living independently, i am happy for her.

    Just have to hold onto hope for my girl too. One day she too will have stability and um somehow be able to live independently on her own like the other nurse son is.
    Words always stay inside ones soul

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