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    12 Suggestions for Taking Care of Yourself

    12 Suggestions for Taking Care of Yourself
    by Thomas Wright, LMFT

    1. Learn to air your feelings.
    Don't keep them bottled up inside you. Share your sorrows and disappointments with someone you trust. Remember, expressed feelings are changed feelings.

    2. Avoid comparing yourself with others by admiring their gifts and ignoring your gifts.
    This kind of envy causes self-disgust. Put no one's head higher than your own.

    3. Form a small group of people you can call on for emotional support.
    Agree to "be there" for each other. Offer advice only when it is asked for. Listen without interrupting. Take turns talking and listening.

    4. Take time to play.
    Remember that play is any activity that you do just because it feels good. Remind yourself that you deserve to take time to play.

    5. Don't forget to laugh, especially at yourself.
    Look for the humor in things around you. Let your hair down more often. Do something silly and totally unexpected from time to time.

    6. Learn to relax.
    You can find books, tapes, programs, classes, instructors and other materials to teach you how to relax. Relaxation improves the mind, helps the body heal, and feels so much better than stress and tension.

    7. Protect your right to be human.
    Don't let others put you on a pedestal. When people put you on a pedestal, they expect you to be perfect and feel angry when you let them down.

    8. Learn to say no.
    As you become comfortable saying no to the unreasonable expectations, requests or demands of others you will discover that you have more compassion. When you do say yes to others, you will feel better about yourself and the people you're responding to.

    9. Change jobs if you are miserable at work.
    First, try to figure out if the job is wrong for you or if certain people are causing you to feel miserable at work. Try paying more attention to the things you enjoy about your job and less attention to the things that annoy you. Remember that all jobs have some unpleasant aspects.

    10. Stretch your muscles.
    Break a sweat. Go for a walk. Ride a bike. Park farther from the door. Take the stairs. You don't need fancy clothes, club memberships or expensive equipment to add exercise to your daily life.

    11. Practice being a positive, encouraging person.
    Each time you give others a word of encouragement you not only feel better, but you build up your best self.

    12. Pay attention to your spiritual life.
    Slow down. Practice sitting quietly. Listen to your inner voice. Spend time thinking about the things which bring peace, beauty and serenity to your life. Find the courage to follow your own spiritual path if a traditional religion has not been helpful for you.


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    Re: 12 Suggestions for Taking Care of Yourself

    Dear Janet,
    Personally, I love all the suggestions about taking care of yourself, thank you for posting it!
    Have a nice day!
    All the best Holly

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    Re: 12 Suggestions for Taking Care of Yourself

    I think these are great suggestions. I especially like number 5 since I am always laughing, usually at myself.
    &quot;How grateful I was then to be part of the mystery, to love and to be loved. Lets just hope that is enough.&quot;<br />-Conor Oberst

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    Re: 12 Suggestions for Taking Care of Yourself


    Thanks, Holly.

    Mia, I really liked number 5 too.

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    Re: 12 Suggestions for Taking Care of Yourself

    Thanks Janet.

    The list offers some really good tips. I like number two:

    2. Avoid comparing yourself with others by admiring their gifts and ignoring your gifts.
    This kind of envy causes self-disgust. Put no one's head higher than your own.
    I don't do this (i.e. I compare myself to others) and I seem to know so many others who do the same thing. It's a hard habit to break especially when we're constantly innundated by the media and TV and magazines and everythng else about how we "should be".

    The whole list is interesting though, #2 just hit home with me.


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