My daughter and her husband live on different islands here in Hawaii due to his employment. This is taking a toll on her as she lives alone. His job takes him back to his childhood home and into his mother's home.
Before he moved back home, she wanted to discuss this move with him. He continually changed the subject and kept telling her it was for the both of them as this was a "dream job"...the pay was double what he was receiving here AND the company would be paying for his brand new truck. My daughter is employed also. She did not want to move and never had intentions of moving to this other island as her family and all her friends are here. She doesn't even like visiting this island much less live there. The dilemma too is that she wants children but her husbanc is unable to bear them.
Question: Is this relationship worth hanging on to? He has always been a taker and now, my daughter is tired of always giving in. Especially since she sees no gain in his income -he's always 'broke' ...and he is unable to father any children. Her biological clock is ticking very loudly.
David, so much going on besides being in grief.