I am curious, and I realize that it could very well be many different reasons, but I am considered a man with very attractive looks as many people tell me (I am not bragging), but when I am out to attract women I cannot seam to get looks, hit on, or very many yes's to dates. To make matters more confusing, I have friends that are either less attractive then me, or not attractive at all and they seem to get as many women as they desire.
I am fairly self-confident. I'm not shy. I am honest and don't come off as phony. I do not brag or talk about myself. I dress and smell good. What am I doing wrong? Are women intimidated by me? Can women read into me somehow? You would think a guy with my looks could get all kinds of women but I have a hard time getting women to talk or look at me. I know I am sending out some sort of bad vibe, but I am trying hard to figure out what exactly it could be.
How come not very attractive guys tend to get all the women and some of the attractive ones don't?
What is the secret to attracting beautiful women if it is not all about looks? I even see super short guys, 5' or so get some very beautiful women. What is the secret? Any recommended self-help books etc... on this subject?
Any suggestions will be helpful. thank you.