My husband and I are no longer needed or wanted by our grown children.My husband has COPD and has had bladder tumors and a low grade prostate cancer,this has all led to a depression and we both seem to be stuck in a rut.I was a stay at home Mother for over 30 years.
I started a cleaning company 7 years ago which two of our daughters helped me with.We had a cleaning contract and the new manager decided to let us go as they no longer needed the services.My husband has been in a depression since 2003 when the company he worked for let him go after 13 years,he was in a car accident the year before and it all made it worse,for the last 9 years he has been working at anything he could find.He found a somewhat decent job in 2010 and they laid off everyone so he was on unemployment insurance for 28 weeks.
The UI ran out and now he just sleeps when ever and does what ever.I have not enough job experience and have had no call's for employment.We are staying with a niece and I can see her patience wearing because of this rut and depression we are both stuck in.
My heart has broken because none of our adult children want us and he sleeps at random times day and night.Our daughters do not call me or have not much to say when we drive over and see if they will be home.All of our children have enough room for us to stay with them but none of them want to be around us.
Any thoughts on our predicament and what we can do?
I started a cleaning company 7 years ago which two of our daughters helped me with.We had a cleaning contract and the new manager decided to let us go as they no longer needed the services.My husband has been in a depression since 2003 when the company he worked for let him go after 13 years,he was in a car accident the year before and it all made it worse,for the last 9 years he has been working at anything he could find.He found a somewhat decent job in 2010 and they laid off everyone so he was on unemployment insurance for 28 weeks.
The UI ran out and now he just sleeps when ever and does what ever.I have not enough job experience and have had no call's for employment.We are staying with a niece and I can see her patience wearing because of this rut and depression we are both stuck in.
My heart has broken because none of our adult children want us and he sleeps at random times day and night.Our daughters do not call me or have not much to say when we drive over and see if they will be home.All of our children have enough room for us to stay with them but none of them want to be around us.
Any thoughts on our predicament and what we can do?
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