stargazer
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If this topic is best found on another already-existing thread, please advise me accordingly. I'm writing out of concern for a close female friend who was sexually abused as a child. In fact, she continued to have sex with her father until the day he died, even though she was in her late thirties or early forties by then. She told me that she had always enjoyed having sex with him, and that it was just a part of their relationship.
This person is a very sensitive person, and a decent person. However, I have noticed that she is unusually obsessed with sex, and that her ideas regarding preferred sexual behavior are often kinky, and without thought toward intimacy. When she has described past relationships, she often describes situations that are at least borderline-abusive on the part of her partner, which she claims has "worked for her."
I'm posting this at this time for a specific reason involving an incident that occurred over the weekend. But I'd rather not describe it in detail unless it seems appropriate at a later time. My reason for posting is that I'm hoping to gain information as to how sexual abuse in one's childhood might lead to distorted or unhealthy sexual perceptions and attitudes later in life.
This person is a very sensitive person, and a decent person. However, I have noticed that she is unusually obsessed with sex, and that her ideas regarding preferred sexual behavior are often kinky, and without thought toward intimacy. When she has described past relationships, she often describes situations that are at least borderline-abusive on the part of her partner, which she claims has "worked for her."
I'm posting this at this time for a specific reason involving an incident that occurred over the weekend. But I'd rather not describe it in detail unless it seems appropriate at a later time. My reason for posting is that I'm hoping to gain information as to how sexual abuse in one's childhood might lead to distorted or unhealthy sexual perceptions and attitudes later in life.