hi im 19 years old looking to live life to the fullest. My problem is my girlfriends past, she has had sex one time without me with one other guy and it happened to be on a beach. a few days later he broke up with her. me being her friend at the time, she told me everything, she was devastated. This continued into our relationship for a while. I understood how she felt used but i eventually had enough and flipped out that she brings up having sex with someone else all the time, even if it was in a negative light. Now i constantly feel like this event was more important to her then having sex with me although she reassures me its not. The fact that it was on a beach drives me crazy. She talks about having sex in places like that still but says she's wouldn't actually want to do it. i love her very much but everyday i become annoyed, doubtful and even angered by this. Im just trying to let it go and move on but I'm having a very hard time.
Ive tried hypnotherapy for getting over a partners sexual history, its helped but only to an extent. i feel that I'm getting better but these feelings still creep up on me.
any help would be so greatly appreciated, i know i should just man up but this has bin bothering me for a while now
Thanks!
Ive tried hypnotherapy for getting over a partners sexual history, its helped but only to an extent. i feel that I'm getting better but these feelings still creep up on me.
any help would be so greatly appreciated, i know i should just man up but this has bin bothering me for a while now
Thanks!