Sonya
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My husband had several losses in his family - both his parents, his niece, his brother, and a good friend all died within the past two years. Naturally, he was very depressed and sad.
I asked him if he would consider grief counseling. To my amazement, he said "yes", so I made him an appointment with a very reputable and highly-recommended grief counselor.
He has had six sessions so far and has made a lot of progress. I really didn't expect him to go back after the first appointment because he was reluctant when I first asked him, but now I see that he looks forward to going.
I read in the newspaper that his grief counselor passed away two days ago. I hid the newspaper. Thankfully, my husband isn't one to read the newspaper everyday, so he didn't ask about it.
I cannot tell him this happened. I don't want to lie, but I think I will tell him that his doctor moved or was too expensive or something. I can then find him another counselor.
Am I wrong to do this? I just don't think he can take another loss and he really, really liked this counselor.
I asked him if he would consider grief counseling. To my amazement, he said "yes", so I made him an appointment with a very reputable and highly-recommended grief counselor.
He has had six sessions so far and has made a lot of progress. I really didn't expect him to go back after the first appointment because he was reluctant when I first asked him, but now I see that he looks forward to going.
I read in the newspaper that his grief counselor passed away two days ago. I hid the newspaper. Thankfully, my husband isn't one to read the newspaper everyday, so he didn't ask about it.
I cannot tell him this happened. I don't want to lie, but I think I will tell him that his doctor moved or was too expensive or something. I can then find him another counselor.
Am I wrong to do this? I just don't think he can take another loss and he really, really liked this counselor.