I am new to this community and joined up to give and recieve insight on this subject primarily.
I wrote this in my introductory message also but think i should touch base again on it.
I ve been doing a lot of exploring in psychology for the reason that i am tired of feeling terrible and know that i can enjoy life a lot more if i tackle the problems that are creating this dark, pessimistic perception of everything i encounter. I ve spent a good couple of years seeking help, answers, ways to change, and have tried various ways to improve my well being. Unfortunately, none of these proved effective. I recently found a book that opened my eyes a bit to a more the symptoms that i was enduring. The book turned me towards a different set of research material that i have found very common with what i face.
I had a very traumatic year about 12 years ago. I lost my mother and my grandma who both raised me throughout most of my childhood. My grandma to cancer and my mother 3months later to a heart attack. I was sent to live with my dad who ended up leaving within weeks after the funeral of my mother for army commitments. I was left for 9 months with my step mom and step sister. I didn't really know them as a close part of my life. Within a day after the funeral i was sent to a new high school in a new town. My sister moved far away which was another person i was raised with. I was 16 years old at this time. I know this is the root cause to my insecurity now and i recently learned that i can combat this and live a normal life. I just don't know how to do it and need suggestions regarding ways to tackle this issue and begin the healing process.
The insecurity has affected my job, my relationships, my motivation and i know that in the right mindset i can be very successful. I have that drive but its blocked by the insecurity.
Very respectfully,
Cameron
I wrote this in my introductory message also but think i should touch base again on it.
I ve been doing a lot of exploring in psychology for the reason that i am tired of feeling terrible and know that i can enjoy life a lot more if i tackle the problems that are creating this dark, pessimistic perception of everything i encounter. I ve spent a good couple of years seeking help, answers, ways to change, and have tried various ways to improve my well being. Unfortunately, none of these proved effective. I recently found a book that opened my eyes a bit to a more the symptoms that i was enduring. The book turned me towards a different set of research material that i have found very common with what i face.
I had a very traumatic year about 12 years ago. I lost my mother and my grandma who both raised me throughout most of my childhood. My grandma to cancer and my mother 3months later to a heart attack. I was sent to live with my dad who ended up leaving within weeks after the funeral of my mother for army commitments. I was left for 9 months with my step mom and step sister. I didn't really know them as a close part of my life. Within a day after the funeral i was sent to a new high school in a new town. My sister moved far away which was another person i was raised with. I was 16 years old at this time. I know this is the root cause to my insecurity now and i recently learned that i can combat this and live a normal life. I just don't know how to do it and need suggestions regarding ways to tackle this issue and begin the healing process.
The insecurity has affected my job, my relationships, my motivation and i know that in the right mindset i can be very successful. I have that drive but its blocked by the insecurity.
Very respectfully,
Cameron