I'm not really expecting a definitive answer here, moreso looking for opinions/thoughts etc.
I've found from speaking to people that some come off as naturally confident, not cocky, but confident. It just seems they were born that way, and that is part of their personality. With others I don't want to say its false, but it tends to be slightly more exaggerated and doesn't come off as natural, almost as if under that shell of confidence is someone frightened (a bit of an extreme statement), but hopefully you get the idea.
One thing that's always troubled me somewhat is, should we be more accepting of our natural personality, or she we be working to better ourselves all the time (even if its not necessarily bettering ourselves).
I've found from speaking to people that some come off as naturally confident, not cocky, but confident. It just seems they were born that way, and that is part of their personality. With others I don't want to say its false, but it tends to be slightly more exaggerated and doesn't come off as natural, almost as if under that shell of confidence is someone frightened (a bit of an extreme statement), but hopefully you get the idea.
One thing that's always troubled me somewhat is, should we be more accepting of our natural personality, or she we be working to better ourselves all the time (even if its not necessarily bettering ourselves).