Unsure what gender I identify as

[GaryQ]

David and Daniel made good points. There will always be weirdos and ***holes wherever you go.
Partial changes though might provoke reactions more than actually a total wardrobe attitude change.
In other words better to fully dress/look like the other gender than partially, might attract less attention (I think but what do I know LOL)

 

[David Baxter PhD]

Probably not, Gary.

If you don't look like everyone else, chances are someone is going to react to you.

Years ago, still very much in my hippy phase, I moved from Montreal to what was then the sleepy little town of Kingston, Ontario, to go to Queen's University. When I went into a grocery store (or anywhere else that wasn't on campus), I'd hear comments behind me like "Is that a boy or a girl?", a reference to my shoulder length hair. All I could think was, "Really? Did you guys not get the memo? That stopped being cute like 10 years ago."

It was like going back in time.

 

[GaryQ]

Years ago, still very much in my hippy phase, I moved from Montreal to what was then the sleepy little town of Kingston, Ontario, to go to Queen's University.

Years ago? You mean like many decades ago...

 

[David Baxter PhD]

Many years ago.

 

[Daniel E.]

And, obviously, it doesn't matter since all those years/decades working as a therapist slowed down the aging process.

 

[David Baxter PhD]

It might be genes. I still have to show ID for the senior's discounts.