A person in their 50?s+ has been on anti depressants for an eternity as far as personal reckoning goes. Memories are not equated with years or dates, but from merging periods of therapy and medications. There are no clear boundaries or pivotal points of the past, just an uninterrupted flow of rote existence. There is nothing special about Christmas. Its just another reminder that there isn?t, and never has been, (since early childhood) cause for celebration.
Why? Who knows. The best that science and medicine has to offer has not produced positive results. To be sure, science and medicine have helped countless others, but not this person. What to do??..do we tell them to hang in there and tough it out with further prescriptions for happiness? God exited stage left a long long time ago. So, what to do?
I don?t know. Do we do our best to encourage them with what words we can find? Do we let our helplessness in the matter cause us to stop trying to help eventually? Do we try to resurrect happier childhood memories in them in the hope it will make a difference?, or do we try to understand their position and not impose our beliefs on them? Can we accept them as they are and believe how they feel is true? Is a person expected to live an uneventful, uninteresting, and for the most part unsatisfying life until old age kills them? Are we to subject them to more years of non productive therapy and medications, attempt to convince them that their thinking isn?t right, and that bio-chemistry is the culprit?
Christmas is a perfect time for thinking of such people, as we open our presents, take joy in our loved ones, and celebrate whatever precious associations we have with this time. There are many who awake Christmas morning to yet another repetitious yearly event that allows them one more time to recall how childhood was, then dismiss the thought and stare blankly out a window.
Any suggestions?
(this is NOT autobiographical)
Why? Who knows. The best that science and medicine has to offer has not produced positive results. To be sure, science and medicine have helped countless others, but not this person. What to do??..do we tell them to hang in there and tough it out with further prescriptions for happiness? God exited stage left a long long time ago. So, what to do?
I don?t know. Do we do our best to encourage them with what words we can find? Do we let our helplessness in the matter cause us to stop trying to help eventually? Do we try to resurrect happier childhood memories in them in the hope it will make a difference?, or do we try to understand their position and not impose our beliefs on them? Can we accept them as they are and believe how they feel is true? Is a person expected to live an uneventful, uninteresting, and for the most part unsatisfying life until old age kills them? Are we to subject them to more years of non productive therapy and medications, attempt to convince them that their thinking isn?t right, and that bio-chemistry is the culprit?
Christmas is a perfect time for thinking of such people, as we open our presents, take joy in our loved ones, and celebrate whatever precious associations we have with this time. There are many who awake Christmas morning to yet another repetitious yearly event that allows them one more time to recall how childhood was, then dismiss the thought and stare blankly out a window.
Any suggestions?
(this is NOT autobiographical)