Wasn't really sure what forum to post this in...Just feeling blah, blah, blah. Every year I trudge dutifully home for the holidays. It's not all bad, and is actually one of the few times the folks and I get along. This year is a little different. This year I'm angry and upset. This year my PTSD is making it difficult for me to relate to them. This year flashbacks to child abuse and incest makes it impossible to rationalize, or come up with excuses for their behavior. This year I'm in therapy, and have been working hard to put a life that was going down hill thanks to years of stuffing feelings and ignoring issues back together. This year I'm struggling with my decision not to go home for the holidays.
I've been dealing with some awful flashbacks, and going home seems like a dangerous thing to do. My folks live out in the country, near a small town, in the Alberta prairies and it means isolation, no internet, spotty cell, and zero support resources. My therapist will support my decision no matter what I decide, but I think she is in favor of me not going. Maybe I am too...it seems like a no-brainer, but doesn't make the decision easier. So many feelings that crop up.
I suppose in the end I'm making a decision that for once in my life...takes my own well-being into consideration...which is possibly why I'm having such a hard time. I don't know. I just feel awful right now, and needed to vent. Thanks for listening
I've been dealing with some awful flashbacks, and going home seems like a dangerous thing to do. My folks live out in the country, near a small town, in the Alberta prairies and it means isolation, no internet, spotty cell, and zero support resources. My therapist will support my decision no matter what I decide, but I think she is in favor of me not going. Maybe I am too...it seems like a no-brainer, but doesn't make the decision easier. So many feelings that crop up.
I suppose in the end I'm making a decision that for once in my life...takes my own well-being into consideration...which is possibly why I'm having such a hard time. I don't know. I just feel awful right now, and needed to vent. Thanks for listening