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hugsy

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just an observation....would like to read other observations/conclusions/etc. from anyone who'd like to share.

not long ago, i came to the conclusion that i can love someone (romantic) and not have to do anything about it. i don't have to do things to try to be with them, or even be in contact. i can just decide that i love this person and there is nothing more. i can do this till the day that i don't feel love anymore. i don't have to try to not feel it, or to try to get rid of it. i can just leave it there, like in a drawer of my heart. take it out or leave it in when i feel like it. some day it won't feel so ...what is the word...so... there. i won't be so aware of it. i think i will always love this person, but the love will change. it has changed some. so i know it will change some more.
 

hugsy

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just an observation....would like to read other observations/conclusions/etc. from anyone who'd like to share.

not long ago, i came to the conclusion that i can love someone (romantic) and not have to do anything about it. i don't have to do things to try to be with them, or even be in contact. i can just decide that i love this person and there is nothing more. i can do this till the day that i don't feel love anymore. i don't have to try to not feel it, or to try to get rid of it. i can just leave it there, like in a drawer of my heart. take it out or leave it in when i feel like it. some day it won't feel so ...what is the word...so... there. i won't be so aware of it. i think i will always love this person, but the love will change. it has changed some. so i know it will change some more.
 

Enigma

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hugsy said:
i think i will always love this person, but the love will change. it has changed some. so i know it will change some more.

I understand that; I'm going through the same thing. The kind of love changes, but the love will be there forever (kind of unconditional) because of the strong bonds that have been formed - that's how I feel anyway.

I don't know what else to say, but I know where you're coming from.
 

Enigma

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hugsy said:
i think i will always love this person, but the love will change. it has changed some. so i know it will change some more.

I understand that; I'm going through the same thing. The kind of love changes, but the love will be there forever (kind of unconditional) because of the strong bonds that have been formed - that's how I feel anyway.

I don't know what else to say, but I know where you're coming from.
 

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