music dad
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Well, I've been easing my way into living with the gal of my dreams.
Not full time, I like to have some alone free time which is what I've been used to since my divorce. No kids involved just the 2 of us.
It's not easy! We both are used to living on our own.
We are both sensitive. Although on a good point we discuss our battles and look at things from each others perspectives.
Seem to lately had the all or nothing thing come up in arguments.
I'm like I am out of hear if you are going to be like that with me.
However i don't leave and we eventually talk.
Today I was told that maybe I should opt out in an argument, it really freaked me out to hear this. Kinda hurt...I guess I don't feel loved when this stuff goes on. My brain says if she really means that then she doesn't give a damn..this is usually during heated moments.
I believe I have abandonment and trust issues from prior relationships.
I thought I worked on them, however they seem to come back from time to time....any ideas?
Not full time, I like to have some alone free time which is what I've been used to since my divorce. No kids involved just the 2 of us.
It's not easy! We both are used to living on our own.
We are both sensitive. Although on a good point we discuss our battles and look at things from each others perspectives.
Seem to lately had the all or nothing thing come up in arguments.
I'm like I am out of hear if you are going to be like that with me.
However i don't leave and we eventually talk.
Today I was told that maybe I should opt out in an argument, it really freaked me out to hear this. Kinda hurt...I guess I don't feel loved when this stuff goes on. My brain says if she really means that then she doesn't give a damn..this is usually during heated moments.
I believe I have abandonment and trust issues from prior relationships.
I thought I worked on them, however they seem to come back from time to time....any ideas?
