Ok here's my situation.
6 years ago I met this girl through a friend of mine. He was dating her at the time, and she blew me away. So sweet and just an excellent person.
As time went on, they moved in together as did I and my current gf. My buddy and I started hanging out alot, became best friends I guess you could say. He cheated on her left and right, it drove me crazy because she was a special girl and didnt deserve it. He treated her like garbage, controlled her, told her what to wear what to do etc.
Then they had a kid. Thing were good for a while but it ended up going back to the old ways of him cheated and hurting her. I felt he didnt deserve a girl like that.
About 3 years ago, I broke up with my gf, and my buddy and his gf broke up as well. She was now a single mother with an asshole ex boyfriend.
Well, I started hanging out with his ex gf alot, and we had a great time. We started to date and thats when things went bad. I realize it wasnt the smartest move, but I had to have her.
I lost contact with him and alot of mutual friends as expected. Now we live in a house together, both good jobs, excellent relationship and we have the best time together, couldnt ask for more in a girlfriend. I will marry her. Her now 4 year old daughter lives with us as well and see's her dad every other weekend.
I really want to call my ex best friend and say sorry for what I did. I havent spoken to him really since all the stuff happened. What do I do?
I just can't seem to pick up the phone and call. I aviod places where he might be and find myself looking over my shoulder wherever I go because I don't know what the confrontation is going to be like. And surprisingly enough we havent ran into eachother yet.
What is the best way to deal with this? I feel if I can settle things with him I would have this huge weight lifted off my chest and conscience and maybe be able to live freely. I just can't do it????
Please help me.
6 years ago I met this girl through a friend of mine. He was dating her at the time, and she blew me away. So sweet and just an excellent person.
As time went on, they moved in together as did I and my current gf. My buddy and I started hanging out alot, became best friends I guess you could say. He cheated on her left and right, it drove me crazy because she was a special girl and didnt deserve it. He treated her like garbage, controlled her, told her what to wear what to do etc.
Then they had a kid. Thing were good for a while but it ended up going back to the old ways of him cheated and hurting her. I felt he didnt deserve a girl like that.
About 3 years ago, I broke up with my gf, and my buddy and his gf broke up as well. She was now a single mother with an asshole ex boyfriend.
Well, I started hanging out with his ex gf alot, and we had a great time. We started to date and thats when things went bad. I realize it wasnt the smartest move, but I had to have her.
I lost contact with him and alot of mutual friends as expected. Now we live in a house together, both good jobs, excellent relationship and we have the best time together, couldnt ask for more in a girlfriend. I will marry her. Her now 4 year old daughter lives with us as well and see's her dad every other weekend.
I really want to call my ex best friend and say sorry for what I did. I havent spoken to him really since all the stuff happened. What do I do?
I just can't seem to pick up the phone and call. I aviod places where he might be and find myself looking over my shoulder wherever I go because I don't know what the confrontation is going to be like. And surprisingly enough we havent ran into eachother yet.
What is the best way to deal with this? I feel if I can settle things with him I would have this huge weight lifted off my chest and conscience and maybe be able to live freely. I just can't do it????
Please help me.