I have this problem . I have this very close friend that had this surgery and he's alive with a miracle , that happened couple of months ago
He's now physically good but since that surgery our relationship was never the same .
He doesnt show much care although he says he cares ,
He says he cares so much but there is this thing deep inside him push him away from his closest friends ever . I believe he's over protecting his heart as he got hurt several times from closest people ,
The problem is I dont want to leave him when he might be needing me and also i cant accept it when i feel he doesnt care as he doesnt simply show it . and he admitted it that he cant show care he cant act like normal .
He's now physically good but since that surgery our relationship was never the same .
He doesnt show much care although he says he cares ,
He says he cares so much but there is this thing deep inside him push him away from his closest friends ever . I believe he's over protecting his heart as he got hurt several times from closest people ,
The problem is I dont want to leave him when he might be needing me and also i cant accept it when i feel he doesnt care as he doesnt simply show it . and he admitted it that he cant show care he cant act like normal .