Hello there, Any help or suggestions would be appreciated greatly.
My sister decided about 5 years ago that she has Multiple Sclerosis. She went to doctor after doctor trying to get a diagnosis of MS. No one would diagnose her. Finally, she went to the Mayo Clinic and after spending a week there having tests run, they basically told her nothing was wrong with her.
She came home and continues to tell everyone she has MS. She reads and researches a great deal and so is very aware of the symptoms. So of course she exhibits them including a dragging of one of her legs. This comes and goes as do her other symptoms, conveniently I might add.
At the beginning, I thought something must be terribly wrong with her. But after a few years of this and the fact that she does not deteriorate, I became suspicious. My sister's dragging leg improved drastically when she didn't know she was being watched. She uses her “illness” as a way to avoid anything she does not want to do, but is never limited by her “disease” when it comes to things she wants to do.
My parents, as well as the small cirle of people she is around, have fallen for this hook, line and sinker and are extremely protective of my sister and her children. They all enable her.They do not see the discrepancies. I have tried to gently suggest to my parents that maybe my sister is severely depressed or has something else wrong with her, but they get very angry and defensive at the mere suggestion that it could “be in her head.”
Does anyone have any advice for me? Any ideas of how to deal with this entire situation?
My sister decided about 5 years ago that she has Multiple Sclerosis. She went to doctor after doctor trying to get a diagnosis of MS. No one would diagnose her. Finally, she went to the Mayo Clinic and after spending a week there having tests run, they basically told her nothing was wrong with her.
She came home and continues to tell everyone she has MS. She reads and researches a great deal and so is very aware of the symptoms. So of course she exhibits them including a dragging of one of her legs. This comes and goes as do her other symptoms, conveniently I might add.
At the beginning, I thought something must be terribly wrong with her. But after a few years of this and the fact that she does not deteriorate, I became suspicious. My sister's dragging leg improved drastically when she didn't know she was being watched. She uses her “illness” as a way to avoid anything she does not want to do, but is never limited by her “disease” when it comes to things she wants to do.
My parents, as well as the small cirle of people she is around, have fallen for this hook, line and sinker and are extremely protective of my sister and her children. They all enable her.They do not see the discrepancies. I have tried to gently suggest to my parents that maybe my sister is severely depressed or has something else wrong with her, but they get very angry and defensive at the mere suggestion that it could “be in her head.”
Does anyone have any advice for me? Any ideas of how to deal with this entire situation?