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David Baxter PhD

Late Founder
Dating site gives 30,000 ?ugly? members the kiss-off
by Adriana Barton, Globe and Mail
Monday, June 20, 2011

If you?re homely enough to be kicked off a dating site, you may need counselling.

At least, that?s how BeautifulPeople.com sees it. The notoriously picky site has set up a helpline after ditching 30,000 members for having substandard looks, the Guardian reports.

The site announced Monday that a monstrous virus ? aptly name ?Shrek? ? had allowed ugly mugs to infiltrate its membership list.

Normally, the website strictly enforces its tagline ?Beauty lies in the eyes of the voter? by deleting temporary profiles that do not get the green light in its member-driven ranking system within 24 hours. The computer virus was the work of a ?disgruntled former employee,? the site?s managing director, Greg Hodge, told the Guardian.

Booting off 30,000 members will cost the company more than $100,000 (U.S.). But standards are standards, he said. ?We can?t just sweep 30,000 ugly people under the carpet.?

Rachel Godfrey, a 31-year-old Australian nanny living in Los Angeles, was among those who didn?t make the grade. She was about to date an American she?d met on the site when she received her rejection e-mail, she explained to the Guardian. ?Now I can't get in touch with him.?

Since its beginning in Denmark in 2002, the website has cultivated a reputation for being ruthless. Last year, about 5,000 members were booted from the website because they appeared to have gained weight over Christmas. In a company release, site founder Robert Hintze referred to them as ?fatties,? The Globe and Mail reported.

Previously, the site drew ire for listing Britons among the ugliest people in the world, especially compared with bodacious Brazilians and sexy Scandinavians.

Considering the site?s callous business model, it may be tough to accept Mr. Hodge?s apology to the ?unfortunate people who were wrongly admitted to the site and believed, albeit for a short time, that they were beautiful.?

Clearly, he doesn?t realize that beauty is only skin deep.
 

David Baxter PhD

Late Founder
I remember that episode. But in the end even Peter Griffin (hardly Mr. Sensitive himself) realizes the people in the club are just jerks. :)
 

Dragonfly

Global Moderator & Practitioner
Member
Well .... there are a couple of good things about this. On a personal level - I now know that if I need to avoid rejection, I need not apply. Conversly, if I want to practice being rejected, I know where to get that experience from. (For me, there really is something helpful about being able to predict rejection....) And, at least among that group of folks, there is clarity about what is valued. I can think of many other groups that I wouldn't want to belong to cuz I don't share their values, either ....
 
lol I'm glad people like that can put themselves on a pedestal nice and high above me, so that way I don't have to deal with them. They are actually doing me a favour by ostracizing me and the rest of the human race. lol They can all become purebreds and inbreed themselves into oblivion. lol
 
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