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Ming

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hey guys,

just wanted to share my story with you...

it's been about 7-8 months since I left my wife and kids.

I had to leave because my anger was getting worse everyday. I had decided to leave, take some time to think and clear my head.

The time that I was gone, made me realize many things and now that I understand my problem and have learned to accept it, I want to go back to my wife and kids. But, she doesn't want me to come back, she says that she got used to the fact that I wasn't around for these few months. I had one talk face-to-face with her, but nothing changed.

I had taken a decision that I will regret for the rest of my life.

Just wanted to say that, no matter how bad the situation, don't make decisions based on reflex!

Take your time to think about all the consequences that will happen after! Take a few minutes and put yourself in the shoes in front of you and feel what they feel, then turn around and look at your beautiful children and put yourself in there shoes, after you have done that, you will be able to make the right decision. I just wish that I did that before I left!
 
I think you did what you had to at that moment in time. I am sorry the trust was lost between you and your wife after you left. Maybe in time you can show her differently how much she and the children mean to you. Is there any possible way you can get some marriage councilling for the both of you it may help. Stay strong okay maybe in time you will gain her trust again take care.
 
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