Loss of friend to cancer

[FionaArt]

A friend who was 34 lost a fight with cancer. I am grieving but the last 3 years we have not always got on. I am confused as I am bad for thinking anything but lovely thoughts about her. Now dead she is of course perfect.:hide::sorry::sob::confidential::brokenheart:

 

[David Baxter PhD]

No. She wasn't perfect when she was living and she isn't perfect now that she has passed away. But it would probably be helpful for you to let go of whatever grievances existed between you previously - whatever they were can no longer be resolved anyway.

 

[forgetmenot]

I am sorry you lost your friend and as with all relationships there will be up and downs no one can be perfect I hope you hold on to the good times you had with your friend the good memories hugs