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This one is for the guys
by Christine Stapleton, PsychCentral Blogs
March 1, 2009
A survey sponsored by the American Academy of Family Physicians found that 78 percent of all married men who visited a doctor had been influenced to do so by their wives. Which means we women - whether we like it or not and whether we are married or not - need to know the symptoms of depression in men.
Some are like ours:
Symptoms of depression in men often include
Men need to know that for some, testosterone replacement alone can relieve and even eliminate symptoms of mild depression, Roose said. However, doctors often go overboard with testosterone replacement and over medicating with testosterone can cause more problems, Roose said. Antidepressants are effective for those guys with more serious symptoms.
Getting a guy to take an antidepressant is worse than ?suggesting? he stop and ask for directions. So, here is what men and women need to know: Yes, some antidepressants can cause ED. But - and it is a really big ?but? - MEN CAN TAKE E.D. MEDICATION WHILE TAKING ANTIDEPRESSANTS, Roose said.
Why is this such a big deal NOW? Because research has found - not surprisingly - that men who buy into the John Wayne-esque ideal of manhood and those who measure their worth by their bank account are less likely to seek treatment. There is nothing like getting laid off, losing your home, your ability to send you children to college and to have sex to drive a stake through a man?s manhood.
Finally, we need to know that while women attempt suicide twice as much as men, men are four times more successful. So ladies, we need to understand that these men are sick - not losers. They need understanding and maybe a kinder, gentler kind of hen-pecking to get them to the doctor. But we must keep trying.
Christine Stapleton has been a reporter for The Palm Beach Post for 23 years and in 2006, began writing a column entitled, Kicking Depression.
by Christine Stapleton, PsychCentral Blogs
March 1, 2009
A survey sponsored by the American Academy of Family Physicians found that 78 percent of all married men who visited a doctor had been influenced to do so by their wives. Which means we women - whether we like it or not and whether we are married or not - need to know the symptoms of depression in men.
Some are like ours:
- Hopelessness;
- Fatigue;
- Inability to focus;
- Problems sleeping and eating;
- Feelings of guilt and hopelessness;
- Thoughts of suicide.
Symptoms of depression in men often include
- violent or abusive behavior;
- inappropriate rage;
- escapist behavior, such as overwork or excessive sports;
- risky behavior, such as reckless driving;
- promiscuity;
- alcohol or substance abuse;
- and more frequent thoughts of suicide.
Men need to know that for some, testosterone replacement alone can relieve and even eliminate symptoms of mild depression, Roose said. However, doctors often go overboard with testosterone replacement and over medicating with testosterone can cause more problems, Roose said. Antidepressants are effective for those guys with more serious symptoms.
Getting a guy to take an antidepressant is worse than ?suggesting? he stop and ask for directions. So, here is what men and women need to know: Yes, some antidepressants can cause ED. But - and it is a really big ?but? - MEN CAN TAKE E.D. MEDICATION WHILE TAKING ANTIDEPRESSANTS, Roose said.
Why is this such a big deal NOW? Because research has found - not surprisingly - that men who buy into the John Wayne-esque ideal of manhood and those who measure their worth by their bank account are less likely to seek treatment. There is nothing like getting laid off, losing your home, your ability to send you children to college and to have sex to drive a stake through a man?s manhood.
Finally, we need to know that while women attempt suicide twice as much as men, men are four times more successful. So ladies, we need to understand that these men are sick - not losers. They need understanding and maybe a kinder, gentler kind of hen-pecking to get them to the doctor. But we must keep trying.
Christine Stapleton has been a reporter for The Palm Beach Post for 23 years and in 2006, began writing a column entitled, Kicking Depression.