If you have ever lost anyone close to you, I think Frankl's words there will resonate.Another significant moment came while on a predawn march to work on laying railroad tracks: Another prisoner wondered out loud about the fate of their wives. The young doctor began to think about his own wife, and realized that she was present within him.
"The salvation of man is through love and in love. I understood how a man who has nothing left in this world still may know bliss, be it only for a brief moment, in the contemplation of his beloved." (Frankl, 1963, p. 59)
"There is also purpose in that life which is almost barren of both creation and enjoyment and which admits of but one possibility of high moral behavior: namely, in man's attitude to his existence, and existence restricted by external forces.... Without suffering and death human life cannot be complete." (Frankl, 1963, p. 106)
"...meaning must be found and cannot be given." (1975, p. 112)
"...meaning is something to discover rather than to invent." (1975, p. 113)
You don’t create your mission in life. You detect it.
Love is the only way to grasp another human being in the innermost core of his personality.
What is to give light must endure the burning.
Live as if you were living a second time, and as though you had acted wrongly the first time.
The salvation of man is through love and in love. I understood how a man who has nothing left in this world still may know bliss, be it only for a brief moment, in the contemplation of his beloved. (1963, p. 59)
T)here is also purpose in that life which is almost barren of both creation and enjoyment and which admits of but one possibility of high moral behavior: namely, in man's attitude to his existence, and existence restricted by external forces.... Without suffering and death human life cannot be complete. (1963, p. 106)
He puts it in no uncertain terms: "... (B)eing human is being responsible -- existentially responsible, responsible for one's own existence." (1975, p. 26) Conscience is intuitive and highly personalized. It refers to a real person in a real situation, and cannot be reduced to simple "universal laws." It must be lived.
Fundamentally I see his theory being based on meaning and love. I didn't realize that many viewed Frankel's work from a religious angle. I hadn't considered it religious. And Frankel himself does not want it viewed in religious terms.He refers to conscience as a "pre-reflective ontological self-understanding" or "the wisdom of the heart," "more sensitive than reason can ever be sensible." (1975, p. 39) It is conscience that "sniffs out" that which gives our lives meaning
He called his form of therapy logotherapy, from the Greek word logos, which can mean study, word, spirit, God, or meaning. It is this last sense Frankl focusses on, although the other meanings are never far off. Comparing himself with those other great Viennese psychiatrists, Freud and Adler, he suggested that Freud essentially postulated a will to pleasure as the root of all human motivation, and Adler a will to power. Logotherapy postulates a will to meaning.
Yes, I saw that one too, although I wouldn't describe Adler's theory as a "will to power". Adler talked about "moving from felt inferiority (aka felt minus) to felt superiority (felt plus)" but he wasn't talking about power over other people - only power over one's own perceived limitations or handicaps. In fact, the concept of a superiority complex was introduced by Adler to describe someone who was unsuccessful in attempting to overcome felt inferiority, in which case the "superiority" was a defense against that unresolved "conflict".Janeanne said:I see where Frankel connected his theory to Freud and Adler:
He called his form of therapy logotherapy, from the Greek word logos, which can mean study, word, spirit, God, or meaning. It is this last sense Frankl focusses on, although the other meanings are never far off. Comparing himself with those other great Viennese psychiatrists, Freud and Adler, he suggested that Freud essentially postulated a will to pleasure as the root of all human motivation, and Adler a will to power. Logotherapy postulates a will to meaning.
I think ultimately it does - I did the same thing about 1997 and certainly lost a significant amount of money in the first few years (as is typically the case in any self-employment venture) but the compensation was definitely in being able to feel as if I was making a more significant and meaningful contribution to other people...It's easy to talk about living a meaningful life and a completely different story to actually live a meaningful life. I recently gave up a large steady income in order to pursue my study in counselling.....it is a great risk on my part. I have to admit there are doubts.....I actually consciously decided I wanted to something meaningful....I hope meaningful ends up being practical as well.
It sounds like you do not at all regret your decision .....even with the loss of income. Initially a couple of years I had an imposed job change due to the loss of my husband and decided not to take an anlternative job offer....the income would have been very substantial but I didn't like the job at all. The program I have been accepted to is a Marriage and Family Therapy Program. There are several reasons I chose this program ....most of them practical. I meet fellow classmates/colleagues on May Monday May 24th....we also pick up texts etc then. My concern is that when I studied earlier I very much enjoyed the theoretical aspects most....although with the passage of time I'm not sure how stong that is at this point...I recall the same professor that I mentioned earlier telling us that out of the information we studied we would lose half of it every 10 years....well unless you were making use of it on a regualr basis. I'll just say it's been awhile :0) This program involves more direct counselling earlier than many other programs but I suspect it's not intensely theoretical. In fact during my interview they asked me if I was familiar with Sue Johnson's work...apparently in the program it is used quite extensively especially for marraiage counselling. I'm vaguely familiar with it ....but I haven't studied it and I do not know of anyone personally who has been a part of the therapy.David said:I think ultimately it does - I did the same thing about 1997 and certainly lost a significant amount of money in the first few years (as is typically the case in any self-employment venture) but the compensation was definitely in being able to feel as if I was making a more significant and meaningful contribution to other people..
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