Hi, I'm 16. A guy even. Now that I've started off on a vague note, let me tell you something more. I used to read a lot, when I was a kid. So I got smart. My parents both were top of the class (HS and College). Mother was even valedictorian. My brother was a track star, all A's of course. He's had a bumpy time in college, but it'll work out. I still love him to death. I was always taller so we managed to be best friends.
Anyways, someone called me attention seeking the other day, and I think I know why, but I also don't. I like to wear odd clothing, ask odd questions, and be an odd person. All of course is humor oriented (typically at myself). I look up analysis of attention seekers, and the problem I had was that, yes I had some of those qualities from various titles....but the ones I had directly contradicted the other possibilities. None of them even mentioned humor. If anything I like the challenge of surviving in an environment where I am the target. So either I am another category "freak of freaks," or I am none, and am something else.
The specific example I'm referring to, being called an attention seeker, occurred because I wore my ankle low jean shorts, 3D glasses, and sandals. One might automatically infer that I'm dressing to express individuality, and to some extent, yes. But you have to understand the focus is humor. I'm the kind of person who comes in everyday with a story, 'a fun fact' to the jocks that somehow, an oddity like me, befriended. I speak my mind. Sometimes manipulate my words with the intention of getting made fun of. Of course, the cheer leading squad, many who are in my honors English class, hate me. I don't mind that, I just want to show where I stand socially.
Another thing that I am a firm believer in, is fighting the aristocracies. If anything my greatest hobby is to disrupt the social change. My friend got sexually assaulted a couple months ago, a monster from the grade below, and ever since I have hated these hypocrisies within the aristocracies. I fought with the boy, his main argument being that "I don't have the social right" to even look, never mind speak, with him. An idiot. I love the quotes "I see life through my own eyes, not yours." "Fight the establishment of those who fight the establishment." So, I'm terribly confused, in some sense, where this all puts me.
Note: Like anyone (I feel I'll get rebuked for this assuming this), I have suicidal thoughts. Almost daily. Probably should get that checked out (therapist two years ago....did not work out. Had to fake my way through. I didn't want to disappoint parents [not that big of an issue anymore, that is, disappointing parents]). Which leaves drastic humor as my only escape.
Note2: I won the state science fair. I hate feeling like I'm gloating. But there's not really an easy way to say that. I have Average B grades with maybe 3 A's in 7 classes. Academically I want to earn the world, but school is not my best thing. Stress is fun. but even during the summer I get suicidal. Fun.
Note3 (too many notes?): I hate being corrected. Which is stupid to say because I'm here haha. I don't even know what anyone's suggestion or conclusion will be, but I know my first instinct is to fight it, to escape feeling generalized. Which I hate saying about myself, because I want to fight that statement I made for placing/categorizing me. Lovely.
Note4(Last one, I promise!): I'm a christian. Has had a large impact on me. Mainly leaves me feeling guilty 24/7 for being a reckless hormonal teenager, with only the vague hope of one day achieving an out of reach grasp at perfection. If anything the definition of christian should be broken, right?
So....Where does all of this leave me?
Anyways, someone called me attention seeking the other day, and I think I know why, but I also don't. I like to wear odd clothing, ask odd questions, and be an odd person. All of course is humor oriented (typically at myself). I look up analysis of attention seekers, and the problem I had was that, yes I had some of those qualities from various titles....but the ones I had directly contradicted the other possibilities. None of them even mentioned humor. If anything I like the challenge of surviving in an environment where I am the target. So either I am another category "freak of freaks," or I am none, and am something else.
The specific example I'm referring to, being called an attention seeker, occurred because I wore my ankle low jean shorts, 3D glasses, and sandals. One might automatically infer that I'm dressing to express individuality, and to some extent, yes. But you have to understand the focus is humor. I'm the kind of person who comes in everyday with a story, 'a fun fact' to the jocks that somehow, an oddity like me, befriended. I speak my mind. Sometimes manipulate my words with the intention of getting made fun of. Of course, the cheer leading squad, many who are in my honors English class, hate me. I don't mind that, I just want to show where I stand socially.
Another thing that I am a firm believer in, is fighting the aristocracies. If anything my greatest hobby is to disrupt the social change. My friend got sexually assaulted a couple months ago, a monster from the grade below, and ever since I have hated these hypocrisies within the aristocracies. I fought with the boy, his main argument being that "I don't have the social right" to even look, never mind speak, with him. An idiot. I love the quotes "I see life through my own eyes, not yours." "Fight the establishment of those who fight the establishment." So, I'm terribly confused, in some sense, where this all puts me.
Note: Like anyone (I feel I'll get rebuked for this assuming this), I have suicidal thoughts. Almost daily. Probably should get that checked out (therapist two years ago....did not work out. Had to fake my way through. I didn't want to disappoint parents [not that big of an issue anymore, that is, disappointing parents]). Which leaves drastic humor as my only escape.
Note2: I won the state science fair. I hate feeling like I'm gloating. But there's not really an easy way to say that. I have Average B grades with maybe 3 A's in 7 classes. Academically I want to earn the world, but school is not my best thing. Stress is fun. but even during the summer I get suicidal. Fun.
Note3 (too many notes?): I hate being corrected. Which is stupid to say because I'm here haha. I don't even know what anyone's suggestion or conclusion will be, but I know my first instinct is to fight it, to escape feeling generalized. Which I hate saying about myself, because I want to fight that statement I made for placing/categorizing me. Lovely.
Note4(Last one, I promise!): I'm a christian. Has had a large impact on me. Mainly leaves me feeling guilty 24/7 for being a reckless hormonal teenager, with only the vague hope of one day achieving an out of reach grasp at perfection. If anything the definition of christian should be broken, right?
So....Where does all of this leave me?