The day that my mother passed away, I was literally on my way out the door for a hair cut when the phone rang. It was hospice calling to tell me that if I wanted to see my mother again, I'd have to fly down right away.
This morning, I am finally going to get my hair cut, but I am exhausted. My neighbors make so much noise late at night. This week has been particularly bad as it sounds like they might be moving furniture either in or out. The problem is that they start working on it at 9:30-10 pm, and I usually go to bed at 10. They have hard wood floors above us, so we hear every footstep they make, with or without shoes. They have been doing this all week, and I have been unable to go to sleep until 2-3 am. I am so revved up from being angry at them that I ruminate about it and other stupid things that I would normally ignore.
I think every day that I should just go upstairs and talk to them, but when I'm in the throws of anger, I know it isn't a good idea. The other thing is that the landlord told us a few months ago that they would be leaving in March. Should I risk the possibility that they will react negatively when I might just be able to hold out for a few more weeks?
Am I putting my anger over my mother's death onto them? So many things to consider. I will go back and read all of those articles I saw on anger management.
This morning, I am finally going to get my hair cut, but I am exhausted. My neighbors make so much noise late at night. This week has been particularly bad as it sounds like they might be moving furniture either in or out. The problem is that they start working on it at 9:30-10 pm, and I usually go to bed at 10. They have hard wood floors above us, so we hear every footstep they make, with or without shoes. They have been doing this all week, and I have been unable to go to sleep until 2-3 am. I am so revved up from being angry at them that I ruminate about it and other stupid things that I would normally ignore.
I think every day that I should just go upstairs and talk to them, but when I'm in the throws of anger, I know it isn't a good idea. The other thing is that the landlord told us a few months ago that they would be leaving in March. Should I risk the possibility that they will react negatively when I might just be able to hold out for a few more weeks?
Am I putting my anger over my mother's death onto them? So many things to consider. I will go back and read all of those articles I saw on anger management.