Always Changing
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First of all, I have not written about myself here in a long time, So I feel a little apprehensive writing this now. Why? I truly do not know, I just feel this.
Second of all, I do not know which forum to place the post in. It might belong in here or in the, bipolar forum or abandonment forum or dissociation forum.
and 3rd. I'm just looking for other peoples ideas on what happened\why.
okay, so a couple of weeks ago while in session we were talking about and dealing a little on abandonment, I got to talk to "myself" and found that I was blaming me for abandoning me. I felt a few emotions during this time, some I have not felt for quite a while. I am aware that I dissociated and it took a while to "come back to the here and now. That is something that I really want not to do. So much time is taken up\lost when it happens.
So any ideas on that are welcome.
The next session was started in a not so good way. (I used to have bouts of claustrophobia until recently have had none in maybe couple yrs.) upon arriving for my apt, I was shown to another room to wait for my T. This room was nothing more than a closet turned into a mini office like space. Unable to go anywhere else, wasnt' able to think for a start. I panicked.. mentally. Now I was only in there for a cpl of mins when my T arrived and I pleaded\begged "get me out of here". Within a couple of mins we left that room and it was then that I completely spaced out for a few mins. I was everywhere and nowhere. We did talk about the experience for a short bit and sorted out what to do if my T herself doesn't answer the door. Sorted? It should be but I am still taken back there from time to time this past few days. I am also experiencing some minor depression since then.
Moving on.
This week, and this is the one that really gets me. My apt was cancelled unexpectantly. (truly valid reason and no fault of Therapist). But! It absolutely and completely "threw me". I was upset, angry and even almost in tears. So much so that I was not able to reply and acknowledge the message until much later in the day.
I am puzzled by the intensity of those feelings, I have had apts cancelled before on short notice and while I might be disapointed I certainly would not have had that kind of reaction.! So WHY??
I am not sure if all the above are linked together, or are separate "issues" in and of themselves. and Lastly, yesterday I felt I was crashing, today I am trying to not to think of that. (crashing that is)
Sorry for the really long post, If anyone has any thoughts???
Thanks.
Second of all, I do not know which forum to place the post in. It might belong in here or in the, bipolar forum or abandonment forum or dissociation forum.
and 3rd. I'm just looking for other peoples ideas on what happened\why.
okay, so a couple of weeks ago while in session we were talking about and dealing a little on abandonment, I got to talk to "myself" and found that I was blaming me for abandoning me. I felt a few emotions during this time, some I have not felt for quite a while. I am aware that I dissociated and it took a while to "come back to the here and now. That is something that I really want not to do. So much time is taken up\lost when it happens.
So any ideas on that are welcome.
The next session was started in a not so good way. (I used to have bouts of claustrophobia until recently have had none in maybe couple yrs.) upon arriving for my apt, I was shown to another room to wait for my T. This room was nothing more than a closet turned into a mini office like space. Unable to go anywhere else, wasnt' able to think for a start. I panicked.. mentally. Now I was only in there for a cpl of mins when my T arrived and I pleaded\begged "get me out of here". Within a couple of mins we left that room and it was then that I completely spaced out for a few mins. I was everywhere and nowhere. We did talk about the experience for a short bit and sorted out what to do if my T herself doesn't answer the door. Sorted? It should be but I am still taken back there from time to time this past few days. I am also experiencing some minor depression since then.
Moving on.
This week, and this is the one that really gets me. My apt was cancelled unexpectantly. (truly valid reason and no fault of Therapist). But! It absolutely and completely "threw me". I was upset, angry and even almost in tears. So much so that I was not able to reply and acknowledge the message until much later in the day.
I am puzzled by the intensity of those feelings, I have had apts cancelled before on short notice and while I might be disapointed I certainly would not have had that kind of reaction.! So WHY??
I am not sure if all the above are linked together, or are separate "issues" in and of themselves. and Lastly, yesterday I felt I was crashing, today I am trying to not to think of that. (crashing that is)
Sorry for the really long post, If anyone has any thoughts???
Thanks.