HotthenCold
Member
Hello,
This post is likely to be a little disjointed because I'm not clear on what I want to say. I just need to pull the lever on the ol' brain dump and let this mental clog clear itself up.
I have a lot of anxiety (A LOT!!!) about ignorant, aggressive, negative people. It seems like such a massive number of people have so much poison in their minds and spirits and it gives me indigestion thinking about all this negativity!
When I start thinking about all the ignorance in people and all the misunderstandings that lead to pain and suffering it makes me terrified for out future! Also it makes me furious! I regularly hear friends, co-workers, etc., make such hateful and ignorant statements and it causes me to reject social interaction.
It worries me to hear people at work or social gatherings say things that are so ignorant.
I know it's arrogant to say but I consider myself pretty open minded and I really can't understand why so many people choose to keep feeding this cycle of negativity.
I know that when people make such statements it is because they are ignorant, insecure, and usually not that they are just mean. I know that if a lot of them really dealt with their owns issues and learned to be a little more compassionate then their negativity would simply dissolve, but I can't make them do that!
I am working to be more positive and optimistic, with some real success I should add, but I want to learn not to be so bothered by ignorance.
I guess why I'm sharing this is that I want to know what YOU do to deal with ignorance and hate and the anxiety/anger it causes you?
This post is likely to be a little disjointed because I'm not clear on what I want to say. I just need to pull the lever on the ol' brain dump and let this mental clog clear itself up.
I have a lot of anxiety (A LOT!!!) about ignorant, aggressive, negative people. It seems like such a massive number of people have so much poison in their minds and spirits and it gives me indigestion thinking about all this negativity!
When I start thinking about all the ignorance in people and all the misunderstandings that lead to pain and suffering it makes me terrified for out future! Also it makes me furious! I regularly hear friends, co-workers, etc., make such hateful and ignorant statements and it causes me to reject social interaction.
It worries me to hear people at work or social gatherings say things that are so ignorant.
I know it's arrogant to say but I consider myself pretty open minded and I really can't understand why so many people choose to keep feeding this cycle of negativity.
I know that when people make such statements it is because they are ignorant, insecure, and usually not that they are just mean. I know that if a lot of them really dealt with their owns issues and learned to be a little more compassionate then their negativity would simply dissolve, but I can't make them do that!
I am working to be more positive and optimistic, with some real success I should add, but I want to learn not to be so bothered by ignorance.
I guess why I'm sharing this is that I want to know what YOU do to deal with ignorance and hate and the anxiety/anger it causes you?