MikeinOttawa
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When I was a kid, I was always teased about two things: my weight or my ears. I guess my ears were a little bigger back then, however I'm not concerned about them anymore (thankfully).
I'm really more bothered because of my weight.
People calling me fat (even my grandmother), I could name names over and over and I remember specific instances.
My weight is always on the back of my mind. I hate taking public transportation because I feel so fat. I don't want others to judge me. I catch their looks whenever I step onto a bus and I always have negative thoughts. I think that people are talking behind my back about my weight or that they don't enjoy my company or something. Just walking down the halls in school takes the utmost courage from me right now. I see glances and I know exactly what they are thinking.
My school attendance has suffered because of this. I enjoy class once I'm in class, but the process of getting there is what kills me. I'm always so worried about what other people think of me. Excuse my language, but its ****ing retarded, I know, but I can't help it. It's always in the back of my mind. I always have such negative thoughts about everything!
I've tried telling my mother about my issues a little bit, I told her I have trouble taking the bus but I don't think she understands.
Be it work or my love life (I needed to be constantly assured that my partner loved me; we've since broken up and it feels like things have gotten worse.)
I hate working out in front of people because I know they are judging me. I sometimes get so wrapped up in my own thoughts about whether people like me or if im doing okay that I just get loss and can't concentrate on whats at hand. I always feel so awkward around females, specifically. I want them to 'want me'; even if theres no attraction to them. I don't understand it.
I am sick of these negative thoughts, and have tried turning them around and telling them to shut-up but it doesn't seem to be working.
My doctor gave me these anti-depressants (they start with a Z I think...) but I couldn't sleep. They were 120mg doses. I took two pills but thats it.
When I tried to sleep, my brain would be WIRED. I'd have a voice just repeating over and over how much better my life would be if I was skinny.
"It'll all be okay when I'm skinny. Can you imagine what it will be like? Girls will just fall all over you. You just have to be skinny. Everything will be better."
just over and over and over. I couldn't sleep because of it. It disturbed me.
What kills me is I have a large frame. I doubt that I'll ever be skinny but I can't continue to live like this. It is destroying my life.
I always catch glimpses of myself in mirrors or make sure I look good or even wake up my brother at 7am in the morning for him to tell me the back of my hair looks okay.
I even pick up shiny objects to check my hair out to make sure I look my best.
I have a hard time talking about this (I guess the internet is a good medium to let feelings fly) and I doubt I could explain it well in person without breaking into tears.
I hate my body and I always feel like it's holding me back. I know I can do great things in life but I'm having such a hard time.
It seems like life is always a big struggle. I'm sick of swimming up current. I feel like my patience is running out. I have thoughts of suicide, but I can't hurt my family like that. It feels like my life is never going to get better.
I'm sorry this was so long but I guess I had a lot to get off my chest.
I'm not sure what to do or where to start. I've looked around for support groups but there doesn't seem to be any nor do I know what exactly is wrong with me.
I just want a normal life and to go one day without worrying about what people are thinking of me or judging me.
I'm really more bothered because of my weight.
People calling me fat (even my grandmother), I could name names over and over and I remember specific instances.
My weight is always on the back of my mind. I hate taking public transportation because I feel so fat. I don't want others to judge me. I catch their looks whenever I step onto a bus and I always have negative thoughts. I think that people are talking behind my back about my weight or that they don't enjoy my company or something. Just walking down the halls in school takes the utmost courage from me right now. I see glances and I know exactly what they are thinking.
My school attendance has suffered because of this. I enjoy class once I'm in class, but the process of getting there is what kills me. I'm always so worried about what other people think of me. Excuse my language, but its ****ing retarded, I know, but I can't help it. It's always in the back of my mind. I always have such negative thoughts about everything!
I've tried telling my mother about my issues a little bit, I told her I have trouble taking the bus but I don't think she understands.
Be it work or my love life (I needed to be constantly assured that my partner loved me; we've since broken up and it feels like things have gotten worse.)
I hate working out in front of people because I know they are judging me. I sometimes get so wrapped up in my own thoughts about whether people like me or if im doing okay that I just get loss and can't concentrate on whats at hand. I always feel so awkward around females, specifically. I want them to 'want me'; even if theres no attraction to them. I don't understand it.
I am sick of these negative thoughts, and have tried turning them around and telling them to shut-up but it doesn't seem to be working.
My doctor gave me these anti-depressants (they start with a Z I think...) but I couldn't sleep. They were 120mg doses. I took two pills but thats it.
When I tried to sleep, my brain would be WIRED. I'd have a voice just repeating over and over how much better my life would be if I was skinny.
"It'll all be okay when I'm skinny. Can you imagine what it will be like? Girls will just fall all over you. You just have to be skinny. Everything will be better."
just over and over and over. I couldn't sleep because of it. It disturbed me.
What kills me is I have a large frame. I doubt that I'll ever be skinny but I can't continue to live like this. It is destroying my life.
I always catch glimpses of myself in mirrors or make sure I look good or even wake up my brother at 7am in the morning for him to tell me the back of my hair looks okay.
I even pick up shiny objects to check my hair out to make sure I look my best.
I have a hard time talking about this (I guess the internet is a good medium to let feelings fly) and I doubt I could explain it well in person without breaking into tears.
I hate my body and I always feel like it's holding me back. I know I can do great things in life but I'm having such a hard time.
It seems like life is always a big struggle. I'm sick of swimming up current. I feel like my patience is running out. I have thoughts of suicide, but I can't hurt my family like that. It feels like my life is never going to get better.
I'm sorry this was so long but I guess I had a lot to get off my chest.
I'm not sure what to do or where to start. I've looked around for support groups but there doesn't seem to be any nor do I know what exactly is wrong with me.
I just want a normal life and to go one day without worrying about what people are thinking of me or judging me.