Hi everyone!
I've read lots of post and coudn't find something in regards to my situation. I'm looking for advice.
It been almost 2 yr with my boyfriend! I'm 33 yrs old with two young daughters(10 and 8).
During this relationship I have seen real high and real low(cheating, he's alcoololic which causes lots of financial stress)
He doesn't work steady so I've been providing for him for most of the time. We had a few incident that we have broken up and I've ask him to leave naturally it wasn't pleasant but he found ways for me to find myself quilty npt to sure how but it just there.....so i taking him back.
I've reach a point where now it not healthy....I'm ready to live with my 2 kids again and move on but when I tell him I still feel quilty....once I have time to think I know I have to let go cause it not healty.
How do you do it? where can you get help? would this be codependency? It really serious I'm almost 8k in the hole and it not going right! If anyone been threw this or have any comments please reply back.
Thanks!
I've read lots of post and coudn't find something in regards to my situation. I'm looking for advice.
It been almost 2 yr with my boyfriend! I'm 33 yrs old with two young daughters(10 and 8).
During this relationship I have seen real high and real low(cheating, he's alcoololic which causes lots of financial stress)
He doesn't work steady so I've been providing for him for most of the time. We had a few incident that we have broken up and I've ask him to leave naturally it wasn't pleasant but he found ways for me to find myself quilty npt to sure how but it just there.....so i taking him back.
I've reach a point where now it not healthy....I'm ready to live with my 2 kids again and move on but when I tell him I still feel quilty....once I have time to think I know I have to let go cause it not healty.
How do you do it? where can you get help? would this be codependency? It really serious I'm almost 8k in the hole and it not going right! If anyone been threw this or have any comments please reply back.
Thanks!