Driving myself crazy with jealousy

[David Baxter PhD]

The problem with this question, and others, is that they question how I'd behave with respect to my husband.

Actually it doesn't. That was a rhetorical question related to a general discussion and in answer to a personal point you made. How you behave with your husband isn't the issue.

As I pointed out....that is how I'd do things....for me, there is a difference between dating a man and being married to one. You, of course, are free to deal with your relationship any which way you like.

Actually, you made this statement above:

Bottom line..you can't compare dating to marriage.

That sounds like a generalization to me. And I am suggesting that it's not necessarily true. And if it isn't, then it's not really germane to the discussion, since the discussion is about jealousy and commitment in relationships.