Bumblebean
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I have a young relative with depression and maybe BPD or HPD. She craves attention and reassurance. She can seem fine for a while then it's like she drops into a dark hole. I love this 18 yr old very much but have been very careful to not get pulled into the drama. How can I help her without making myself "crazy" or putting too big a strain on my health which suffers a lot when I am stressed or worried?
She has a lot of "friends" who either encourage her dark moods or give really stupid or dangerous advice. I wish I could chase them away, but I cant so somehow I have to find the right words and actions and hope to drown them out a little.
Any ideas would be really welcome!
Thanks,
BB
ps I have a lot of medications, e.g. potent muscle relaxers and I am hiding them in case she gets really set on taking an overdose cocktail. Apart from calling an ambulance if she finds them, what else can I do. Heaven forbid she finds them but I dont want to take chances.
She has a lot of "friends" who either encourage her dark moods or give really stupid or dangerous advice. I wish I could chase them away, but I cant so somehow I have to find the right words and actions and hope to drown them out a little.
Any ideas would be really welcome!
Thanks,
BB
ps I have a lot of medications, e.g. potent muscle relaxers and I am hiding them in case she gets really set on taking an overdose cocktail. Apart from calling an ambulance if she finds them, what else can I do. Heaven forbid she finds them but I dont want to take chances.
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