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    "Our job in this lifetime is not to shape ourselves into some ideal we imagine we ought to be,
    but to find out who we already are and become it."
    Steven Pressfield, posted by David Baxter
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hello my post will not be long it is just well i ma having a hard time with my father here is a brief description of him psychologicly... he uses illness to get to me and my sister so he is never sick but will fake a cancer for us to take care of him he as been that way since before I can remember and well although befor he had a drinking probleme that was under control about a couple of months ago he seems to have relapsed and drinks from morning to night and i just don't know what to say to tell him how i feel without him faking a heart attac and putting on my ack blaming it on me please help
ashley
 
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hello my post will not be long it is just well i ma having a hard time with my father here is a brief description of him psychologicly... he uses illness to get to me and my sister so he is never sick but will fake a cancer for us to take care of him he as been that way since before I can remember and well although befor he had a drinking probleme that was under control about a couple of months ago he seems to have relapsed and drinks from morning to night and i just don't know what to say to tell him how i feel without him faking a heart attac and putting on my ack blaming it on me please help
ashley
 

ThatLady

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As we've all said before, Ashley-Kate, there's nothing you can do to help your father straighten out his life. He's the one who must do that. All you will become is a victim.
 

ThatLady

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As we've all said before, Ashley-Kate, there's nothing you can do to help your father straighten out his life. He's the one who must do that. All you will become is a victim.
 

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