hi

[Ashley-Kate]

hello my post will not be long it is just well i ma having a hard time with my father here is a brief description of him psychologicly... he uses illness to get to me and my sister so he is never sick but will fake a cancer for us to take care of him he as been that way since before I can remember and well although befor he had a drinking probleme that was under control about a couple of months ago he seems to have relapsed and drinks from morning to night and i just don't know what to say to tell him how i feel without him faking a heart attac and putting on my ack blaming it on me please help
ashley

 

[Ashley-Kate]

hello my post will not be long it is just well i ma having a hard time with my father here is a brief description of him psychologicly... he uses illness to get to me and my sister so he is never sick but will fake a cancer for us to take care of him he as been that way since before I can remember and well although befor he had a drinking probleme that was under control about a couple of months ago he seems to have relapsed and drinks from morning to night and i just don't know what to say to tell him how i feel without him faking a heart attac and putting on my ack blaming it on me please help
ashley

 

[ThatLady]

As we've all said before, Ashley-Kate, there's nothing you can do to help your father straighten out his life. He's the one who must do that. All you will become is a victim.

 

[ThatLady]

As we've all said before, Ashley-Kate, there's nothing you can do to help your father straighten out his life. He's the one who must do that. All you will become is a victim.