TheGrayHat
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I've been struggling with this for a while now. I feel like I have a lot to offer a relationship, but I don't know if it's a good idea. I've been single for about two years now while I've been trying to better myself. But, I don't have a job, I'm in heavy duty therapy for PTSD, and I still live with my mom.. though if it's more for her than me is another question.
Just so I don't sound too hard on myself, I have a lot of excellent qualities too. For example, I'm intelligent, I'm excellent at reading and understanding people, when I'm not depressed I exercise regularly, I've learned how to be much more positive, even when depressed.
I think the main reason I ask, is because I feel like I won't be taken seriously by women unless I have my life together. But, I honestly don't know how long that will take. I'm also struggling to figure out if my desire to date is because I feel like I "need" a relationship or if it's a healthy desire. If it's an unhealthy "need", how long do I need to be single before I can be sure my desire is healthy?
If you have time, please weigh in. Any advice is much appreciated.
Just so I don't sound too hard on myself, I have a lot of excellent qualities too. For example, I'm intelligent, I'm excellent at reading and understanding people, when I'm not depressed I exercise regularly, I've learned how to be much more positive, even when depressed.
I think the main reason I ask, is because I feel like I won't be taken seriously by women unless I have my life together. But, I honestly don't know how long that will take. I'm also struggling to figure out if my desire to date is because I feel like I "need" a relationship or if it's a healthy desire. If it's an unhealthy "need", how long do I need to be single before I can be sure my desire is healthy?
If you have time, please weigh in. Any advice is much appreciated.