I have been in a four year relationship that tragically ended in the both of us getting hurt. After the break up i started to look for possible "rebound" individuals to get my mind off of him. Now i've noticed that I'm still going out with "rebounds" three years after the break up. The guys that i been dating never seem to satisfy what i want emotionally and physically(physical appearance). My standards has dropped tremendously and i feel like I'm always trying to make everybody else around me happier than they ever make me. Also, when i date a guy that my family and friends like i tend to lose interest. Is this common?