I don't know if anyone else has this problem, but sometimes people make me feel guilty for not drinking. There is a history of quite a lot of alcohol and drug abuse in my family so I decided when I was about 20 that I wouldn't tempt fate by drinking. I never had a problem with alcohol, but since I had some of the same tendencies as other family members who were addicts (very hard to get drunk, never got a hangover, etc) I decided that I didn't want to risk it.
Anyway, there are times when people make a huge deal about my not wanting to drink alcohol. Sometimes they will act offended when I don't want any wine with dinner, like I am doing something wrong. I would think that they would be happy to have more for themselves. I was at a party one time and we were playing trivial pursuit and every time you got an answer wrong you had to take a drink and several people threw a huge fit because I wasn't drinking. I took myself out of the game, but they continued to make me feel bad because I wasn't being "fun".
I am not a recovering alcoholic or anything so they act like I am just being difficult for no reason. Given the grief that others give me when I have no desire to drink, I feel so sorry for people who are trying to remain sober and are struggling with it. One of my uncles even had to move several hours away and avoid family get-togethers for several years because it was just too hard for him. I end up feeling like I have to defend my choice not to drink and sometimes end up sharing some of my family history in order to have some sort of excuse. I just wish that people didn't have this attitude that if you don't drink you are a "party-pooper". Please don't get me wrong, I am not judging other people for drinking and I don't want to offend anyone, I just choose not to drink myself.
Anyway, sorry for this long, rambling, pointless post. I just wanted to vent for a while. Sorry.
Anyway, there are times when people make a huge deal about my not wanting to drink alcohol. Sometimes they will act offended when I don't want any wine with dinner, like I am doing something wrong. I would think that they would be happy to have more for themselves. I was at a party one time and we were playing trivial pursuit and every time you got an answer wrong you had to take a drink and several people threw a huge fit because I wasn't drinking. I took myself out of the game, but they continued to make me feel bad because I wasn't being "fun".
I am not a recovering alcoholic or anything so they act like I am just being difficult for no reason. Given the grief that others give me when I have no desire to drink, I feel so sorry for people who are trying to remain sober and are struggling with it. One of my uncles even had to move several hours away and avoid family get-togethers for several years because it was just too hard for him. I end up feeling like I have to defend my choice not to drink and sometimes end up sharing some of my family history in order to have some sort of excuse. I just wish that people didn't have this attitude that if you don't drink you are a "party-pooper". Please don't get me wrong, I am not judging other people for drinking and I don't want to offend anyone, I just choose not to drink myself.
Anyway, sorry for this long, rambling, pointless post. I just wanted to vent for a while. Sorry.