I am not sure if this is the right place to post this. This week my therapist wants to try EMDR again. He wants me to try to process a certain event that I guess I haven't really dealt with up til now. The problem is that I just can't recall much about that time. I remember stuff before and stuff after, but there is a big black hole in my memory for the actual event. When I try to think of it, there is just blackness and nothing else. This isn't really unusual for me as I have big gaps for most of my childhood and adolescence as well. It is just frustrating to have these huge blanks, especially when the things that I seem to forget are pretty important, not mundane things. I am just wondering if there are any techniques to fill in those gaps. For the purposes of the EMDR I suppose I could focus on how I felt afterwards, which I do remember, rather than the actual moment in time, but I don't now if that will work. I feel so defective. It is just so aggravating to feel like I am missing so much of my personal history.
I am sorry, I know that this post doesn't make much sense at all. I am not even sure what I am trying to say right now, just rambling I guess.
I am sorry, I know that this post doesn't make much sense at all. I am not even sure what I am trying to say right now, just rambling I guess.