Charity
MVP
If you remember from a while back, I had finally made up my mind to continue with the therapist I'd started seeing, despite my uncertainties... Well, since making that decision, I haven't laid eyes on the guy! Normally, due to our unique arrangement, I knew only to expect a phone call sometime during the day on Fridays. He would call me up to his office when he could fit me in, and I'd have to drop what I was doing and go up for an hour. I was never exactly thrilled with the setup, but I sort of need to take what I can get-- major financial and geographical limitations. But no, after I had talked about it with him, and with you guys, and decided to go ahead and stick it out for a while longer to see how things went, I've never heard back from him. It's been three Fridays now. The first Friday, I waited and waited, and he didn't call. I finally went upstairs to see if I could find him and ask if he could give me at least a general estimate of what time he'd be calling, and it turned out that he was never in the building at all that day. The second Friday, I waited and waited again, and finally gave up and went home for lunch. When I returned to work, I had a typical voicemail from him-- "Hello, this is Dr. K., I'm upstairs." I tried to call that extension back and got no answer, so once again I went searching for him... and he'd already left the building. The third Friday-- a repeat of the first. Not a peep-- he never even came in that day.
Because of all this, I'm pretty sure I don't want anything more to do with this guy, if for no other reason than that it stresses me out not knowing what the hell to expect. People like us have enough to worry about, don't you think, without being left in the dark by the therapist that's supposed to be helping? I still really do want there to be someone I can talk to about things, but I don't know if I'll be able to find someone else who's both close enough for me to physically get to AND that I can afford. I'm thinking that even if I can't find anyone else right now, I want to be finished with Dr. K.
I want to know what you guys think, though!! Am I being stubborn and just insisting on having things my way? Or is it really as I suspect, that I was being treated a bit discourteously? I don't want to jump the gun, as I know that he did have to go to a bit of extra trouble initially to get things set up with my insurance and everything... I don't know what to think. Am I getting jerked around, or am I being overly judgmental?
Advice please!?!?!?!? I'm just little me, surrounded by hordes of sane people, and it's so hard for me to know sometimes if I'm thinking correctly or not!!!
Because of all this, I'm pretty sure I don't want anything more to do with this guy, if for no other reason than that it stresses me out not knowing what the hell to expect. People like us have enough to worry about, don't you think, without being left in the dark by the therapist that's supposed to be helping? I still really do want there to be someone I can talk to about things, but I don't know if I'll be able to find someone else who's both close enough for me to physically get to AND that I can afford. I'm thinking that even if I can't find anyone else right now, I want to be finished with Dr. K.
I want to know what you guys think, though!! Am I being stubborn and just insisting on having things my way? Or is it really as I suspect, that I was being treated a bit discourteously? I don't want to jump the gun, as I know that he did have to go to a bit of extra trouble initially to get things set up with my insurance and everything... I don't know what to think. Am I getting jerked around, or am I being overly judgmental?
Advice please!?!?!?!? I'm just little me, surrounded by hordes of sane people, and it's so hard for me to know sometimes if I'm thinking correctly or not!!!