Quite a few years ago there was a court order for family therapy.The judge chose the therapist and I assumed he knew what he was doing.
The therapist was seeing my husband and I together plus separately. She saw my kids at a different time.Plus,my husband attended a men's group and I attended a women's group.
There were so many things that went wrong,and it took awhile for me to realize it was doing more harm than good.I think the final straw for me was during group; the therapist assigned each of us a task.One person was supposed to watch out the window,one was supposed to watch the door...we were supposed to watch for her husband,in case he went there to beat her up.It was a pretty scary experience.There were alot of other things too,like she had been raped before and said that it was because she was sending subliminal messages that she wanted to be raped.
Anyway,my point is,it took awhile to realize it was bad therapy and a bad therapist.I went along with all of it at first,and was really into it,she was the professional,I trusted her.
So now,I am wondering if maybe I am currently receiving bad therapy by a bad therapist.I have a session in a couple of hours and I'm thinking maybe I shouldn't go.Maybe he is doing more harm than good.Maybe he is making me worse.Maybe I am just trusting he knows what he is doing when in fact he doesn't.Maybe I don't even have PTSD or a dissociative disorder at all.Maybe I don't even need therapy.
How do I know?
The therapist was seeing my husband and I together plus separately. She saw my kids at a different time.Plus,my husband attended a men's group and I attended a women's group.
There were so many things that went wrong,and it took awhile for me to realize it was doing more harm than good.I think the final straw for me was during group; the therapist assigned each of us a task.One person was supposed to watch out the window,one was supposed to watch the door...we were supposed to watch for her husband,in case he went there to beat her up.It was a pretty scary experience.There were alot of other things too,like she had been raped before and said that it was because she was sending subliminal messages that she wanted to be raped.
Anyway,my point is,it took awhile to realize it was bad therapy and a bad therapist.I went along with all of it at first,and was really into it,she was the professional,I trusted her.
So now,I am wondering if maybe I am currently receiving bad therapy by a bad therapist.I have a session in a couple of hours and I'm thinking maybe I shouldn't go.Maybe he is doing more harm than good.Maybe he is making me worse.Maybe I am just trusting he knows what he is doing when in fact he doesn't.Maybe I don't even have PTSD or a dissociative disorder at all.Maybe I don't even need therapy.
How do I know?