More threads by Kathleen

Kathleen

Member
Thanks for the advice. She did pay me 10.25 for the month of August, but will not pay me overtime or back-pay. I think I am going to fill out a claims report. There are other people she is ripping off too and it isn't right or fair. She asked me what was going on and I told her I was going to move out. She told me that unless I change my mind and want to stay, I have until the end of the month. Hopefully I can find a place by then. It wasn't as bad talking to her as I thought it would be.

I had an appointment with my CMHA worker yesterday. It was to explain to her that I wanted a new worker and why. I went into the appointment with a clear head (well...as clear as I could get it) and I was ready to tell her why I wasn't able to talk to her. She was not very professional. It was like she was taking a temper tantrum because I didn't want to see her anymore. She had an angry look. When I went into the office, I sat down and she immediately said in a rude tone "No...Sit over here." Then she just started at me...All my confidence went out the window. I was so intimidated that I started to cry and I couldn't get out what I had to say. She told me that I couldn't get a new worker and then ended our appointment. It was scheduled for 3:00 and I was out of there by 3:05. I honestly can't believe the way she acted. I am still blown away.

Anyways, I told CMHA I didn't want their services anymore and I turned to the health unit for help. I immediately saw the difference in people. The people at the health unit really care. They actually want to help you. They immediately set me up with a community support worker to help me find an apartment and I will be assigned a worker next Tuesday. I got more out of the intake appointment with the health unit than I did in 4 sessions with the CMHA worker.

My head was in such a spin yesterday that I forgot to put a stamp on my OSDP employment sheet that has to be in by the 7th. Somehow it managed to slip by, so I do not know when it will be returned. Monday is a holiday and the ODSP office is 2 hours away. If it doesn't come back until Tuesday, they wont get it on time. I really hope my pay doesn't get cancelled or delayed because of this, especially because I have to be out by the end of the month and need the money for a new place. My life is a big mess right now and I have no idea how I am going to sort it out. Hopefully once I get a case worker things will start to turn around. Thanks for listening.
 

Retired

Member
In situations like this, it is best to try to handle one thing at a time, in priority of importance. If you can write down a list, then decide what has to be done first, second and so on, it should help you deal with one thing at a time.

It sounds like you have made progress by visiting the health unit. Our health care system is stressed and overloaded, so sometimes health care workers seem on edge. Their behaviour should not be taken personally, because everyone has a bad day from time to time.

Keep us posted on how it goes.
 
Replying is not possible. This forum is only available as an archive.
Top