ThumperLoomis
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I was abused for 24 years of abuse, which started when I was 2 years old. I'm finally living my life without being hurt by another person. The problem is, I still flinch if someone simply tries to get a piece of my hair out of my face, or if they go to touch my face I really freak out. I haven't been abused for 22 years now. But, I still flinch, duck, and freak out sometimes when someone get's too close to me, especially, if they get near my face. It tore my husband to pieces. (may he rest in peace) When he would try to touch my face, or if he tried to kiss me without telling me first, I flinched or had a panic attack. What hurt him so much, is that he thought I believed he would hurt me. I couldn't stop myself from flinching or panicking, no matter how hard I tried, and I knew that he would never hurt me. There was never a doubt in my mind. Anybody have any ideas on how to stop the panic attacks and the flinching?