uhm, okay I feel really stupid posting this, but I'm at a total loss as to what to do.... I posted b/f about this guy who was interested and I didn't know if I was, well we didn't talk for a while b/c I said I was busy (well, I was) and so it was nice to talk to him for a bit again. I was being my usual self b/c I thought I had made it clear that I wasn't interested... but at the end, he ended up asking me out again. I don't know how to tell him that he's a nice guy as a friend but I also don't want to hurt his feelings, or assume things but it's pretty obvious.... sigh. Ok, so this is the 1st problem. Then I got this email from this guy asking me to go for coffee, which wouldn't seem like a big deal except that he was my prof for one of my classes. I'm at a total loss of words. I knew we clicked in some way, but from my point of view, it was never even a question that it was anything more than just getting along... ugh. This is frustrating. The marks are all in so I guess it's not like it's not ethical.... or isn't it? What is that rule again? I totally can't think right now... the point is I would have no problem being friends b/c he is a nice guy (and young in case you're picturing this old guy, lol) but not my type at all. But I know if I say yes to coffee, the same thing will happen like w/ the 1st guy... HOW do I tell these guys that I'm interested as FRIENDS but nothing more?!? It seems so easy but it's not at all. The 1st one knows I don't have a b/f and I can't just tell the 2nd one, yes I'll go w/ you as a friend. that seems weird. why do I always get myself into these situations, guys jump to conclusions way too soon!!!!!!!!!! help!!!