For about the past 8 years I have been living in California now and my family lives in Europe. To keep it short, I was considering flying home for an extended stay over christmas until mid January (approx. 6 weeks). It always seemed to me that my mom can not handle me staying at her place for too long, the last time I visited was 2 years ago. Since I am running my own business I have the ability to stay overseas for a longer time. Now, when I told my mom I was planning to stay for 6 weeks she kind off told me that this is too long for her and that we might end up fighting etc., she brings up other topics i.e. higher electricity bill while me there also space is limited which means nothing is in order but over crowded when I am there etc. etc.
I don't know what to think? I feel confused and wonder if I should even go and see her.
What to do, should I just let it go and pass going home to avoid more emotional pain I might experience? I'm so deeply hurt. She is emotional so cold at times and I can count on one hand when she told me that she loves me, I am 34 now.
I just wished to be loved and wanted by her and have her say; I can't wait for you to come home.
Please advice! ......... Go or don't go.
I don't know what to think? I feel confused and wonder if I should even go and see her.
What to do, should I just let it go and pass going home to avoid more emotional pain I might experience? I'm so deeply hurt. She is emotional so cold at times and I can count on one hand when she told me that she loves me, I am 34 now.
I just wished to be loved and wanted by her and have her say; I can't wait for you to come home.
Please advice! ......... Go or don't go.