totaldarkness
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Sorry, I haven't been active in the forum, but when I joined last year i was in the beginning of being tested for MS and my Sx have gotten worse.
Sorry, i hope this makes sense. I can usually articulate clearly, but my neuropathy and faigue is acting up and have "brain fog."
my physical Sx have gotten the best of me.... I have been dealing with so much stress! My relationship with my husband, my five year old daughter who has a severe learning delay (possible autism spectrum).
Anyway my t has a thing were he takes off the summer, and seems to happen every summer. My Sx flair up in the summer due to humidity and this summer i have so much i am dealing with. My husband and i are having major problems because I knew my daughter had a delay since she was a baby and he always bade excuses, and prior to my daughter I gave up on life.
My t is great in many ways, but doesn't he think about his actions? he just took three weeks off for vacation and the week after next he will be taking off another 2-3 weeks off.
It just always seems like there is something. He took time off at christmas, in the spring. It just seems like there is always something and it is impacting my life and the progress I DO make in therapy. I understand T's have a life and need vacations and personal time, but isn't this a little over the top? In the past i have gotten angry and he blamed it on my abandonment issues. I guess what I find more troublesome is that he flings things back at me, but know it isn't all me.
I fired him a few years ago and went back to my first t, but went back to him. We really click, and he has said there is a great connection, but i feel like he doesn't take his job seriously and put it back on me. Am i being unreasonable? Last year he had a lot of personal stress, but has kept disclosure to a minimum. He says i am his favorite, we had a dual relationship two years ago, and maybe it is just time to move on and deal with the loss....