Jealousy

[skaboss610]

I have a girlfriend that i have been dating for a year and a half. I would trust her with anything at all. I am very much in love with her and i know she is with me. But i cant help being very jealous everytime she talks to another guy. She has a friend that she has had since elementry school and he is in the army right now so she talks to him every coulple of days, and i get insanely jealous. I have talked to her and told her how i felt. I want to tell her not to talk to him anymore but i know that is not right. What should i do to stop these feelings. They are realling making me go crazy. Please help.

 

[skaboss610]

I have a girlfriend that i have been dating for a year and a half. I would trust her with anything at all. I am very much in love with her and i know she is with me. But i cant help being very jealous everytime she talks to another guy. She has a friend that she has had since elementry school and he is in the army right now so she talks to him every coulple of days, and i get insanely jealous. I have talked to her and told her how i felt. I want to tell her not to talk to him anymore but i know that is not right. What should i do to stop these feelings. They are realling making me go crazy. Please help.

 

[John]

You should get to know the guy aswell, and then see that there is no threat

 

[John]

You should get to know the guy aswell, and then see that there is no threat

 

[ThatLady]

Sounds like you might need some therapy to deal with your issues of jealousy and distrust. There's nothing that will kill a good relationship faster than to have one partner or the other become suspicious and controlling.

 

[ThatLady]

Sounds like you might need some therapy to deal with your issues of jealousy and distrust. There's nothing that will kill a good relationship faster than to have one partner or the other become suspicious and controlling.